If you are both right, and are both unhappy, do something about it.
Don't turn to shrinks, talk to one another, find out what is making you unhappy and work on that.
2007-12-08 05:16:30
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I can see how that would make sense. If a person is unhappy with what is being said or what is occuring, then they're obviously not saying or doing something for their own benefit, so wouldn't be lying. However, I think that whether or not a person is actually "right" can't really be determined by measuring a person's degree of happiness. The guy who killed 8 people at the mall in Omaha was also unhappy. Was he right?
2007-12-08 11:33:06
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answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7
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Here's the scoop as best as I can figure out - everybody, even married people, have to do the dance that they do to make it so they can live with themselves. People, other than a small minority of truely psychopathic people, like to believe that they aren't truely evil. I'm not talking about pop culture evil, I'm talking about REAL evil. In that manner, since we all have small failings in the grand scheme of things, we tend to think "we're right" until we want to let go of whatever it is that we did wrong - but what's more important? Being able to move forward or being stuck AND right at the same time?
I'd rather keep living and growing myself, so I'd choose to drop being right any day for being alive, until I'm called not to be by someone more powerful than a spouse or a shrink.
My 2.
2007-12-08 21:12:38
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answered by Anonymous
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You can both be right and neither side wrong or both a little wrong. Sometimes it is only a different viewpoint.
Perhaps it would be better for you both to try to understand each others views like if you switched places.
The native Americans had a saying or prayer that went like this:
"Oh great spirit, help me not judge another until I have walked in his moccasins for several weeks."
Something like that.
2007-12-08 12:01:54
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answered by Anonymous
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you are both righteously unhappy. what to do, what to do?
2007-12-08 17:38:09
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answered by Idonplay 5
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Happily there is no answer for this.
2007-12-08 19:29:53
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answered by Anonymous
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