Seems my hubby likes my sister. I caught him looking several times on her. What should I do???

Answer 1

Marriage is built on trust,the art of a good relationship is communication. I suggest you tell him your concerns and listen to his answer. He will probably deny it, but he will know that you know he is looking, this hopefully should nip anything in the bud.

But seriously, men look - that's a fact !! But remember you can still go window shopping, even though you have already bought the goods !! Just because he is looking does not mean that he is thinking anything sinister !!

However, if you find that he is interested in your sister - remember John Wayne Bobbitt !!!!!!!!

Answer 2

My wife of 15 years was a plain jane, while her younger sister was one hot babe. Darn right I looked! I looked as often as I could! Then I went home with my wife and got into bed with her.
Look, it does not matter what the relationship; a guy is going to look. It's how we're put together by Mother Nature. There is absolutely nothing wrong with admiring another woman, unless the one we're married to is the insecure, immature little jealous type. In that case, we're just a bit more discreet about our looking around.
Looking does not equal cheating. I'm now on my second marriage (adultery was NOT the cause of the end of my first) and I'm in my 60s and I still look. When I stop looking you'll find me in my grave! And don't you EVEN pretend YOU don't look at buff guys!

Answer 3

HE will look at girls his whole life. He already knows who he wanted, or he wouldn't have married you. You have to have trust and communication or you have nothinkg, I would sit down with the sister and explain how you feel. Maybe she showed some kind of signs to him that she thought he was handsome? maybe she dresses a little light when he's around? Idk. I really doubt theres anything there or he would have married her not you. This will eat you alive if you don't talk about it, your going to have to trust him or get rid of him.

Without that trust you will NEVER get through this feeling. If your thinking he's checking out your sister whats he doing at work? at lunch, late hours, without you? TRUST THE MAN!!!!

Getting married doesn't mean all eyes on me only for the rest of your life, it means have the respect to do it when I'm not around.

Answer 4

He is looking becuz he is longing and you need to set him straight right now, don't ask him gently you ask him right out, why is he looking at your sister. Get furious with his a** and let him know you are not for any mess, and just for the hell of it stare at one of his brothers, or friends in front of him and see how that makes him feel.

Answer 5

Have a good sister to sister talk, so you and her have a
understanding. That way. You will know if your sister is trying
to cause this distaction, then go after hubby.

Answer 6

You should be thankful that you have an attractive sister to add to your husband's pleasure. lol.

I look at a lot of women for a lot of different reasons. Mostly they're more interesting to look at than cars, bus stops, walls, floors, furniture, etc. But I don't hit on them, or even want to.

You haven't told me anything to accuse him of so far.

Answer 7

What you do is mmh you talk with him private , and you tell him how do you feel and if this is not working then , try to spy both .

Maybe itìs just your immagination,

or the possesive feeling you have about ur husband .
do one thing talk with ur husbans about ursister then look at him and try too see what his face looks like or things like that then you will find out.

But be careful if he really likes ur sister then dont get upset with ur sister , becuse she might be innocent .

Its alwayz the mens....

Answer 8

Just because he married, doesn't mean he's dead.

Maybe it's your sister who needs the adjustment. Was she dressing provocatively?

Answer 9

Just because he's looking doesn't mean he's going to do anything. He just wants to rub one out to her later.

Answer 10

ask him why you keep looking at my sister like that