2007-12-08 01:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by spdrmnky 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
Chocolate, candy, cashews or peanuts, stuff like that. many people consider stuff like that a "luxury" item, and would never ask for or buy them, but would really appreciate it. now, if he can't eat, or something like that, I would say don't buy him anything, just spend time with him. tell him you are spending the day with him, and bring a deck of cards, some books, magazines, maybe a board game like scrabble or something.
2007-12-08 01:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by forjj 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can get him some of the old movies from his era. I know my mother loves Red Skelton so I bought her some on DVD and she was so happy. You could also give him a tape recorder so he could tape his memories for his family or a journal if he is not too tired to write his thoughts and feelings. I always wish I had had my grandmother write down her childhood memories so I would have that part of her with me.
2007-12-09 22:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by jfjohnsonrn2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surround him with things he loves.... Music, a good movie, nuts, fruit, chcocolate, beef jerkey,etc Is he still able to get out and about? Take him for a drive to see the Christmas lights especially if it might be his last Christmas. Then, if he is able, maybe you could stop somewhere he enjoys for something to eat or just a cup of coffee and a slice of pie.
2007-12-08 11:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Can you talk to him? Maybe something material is not what he wants but maybe he would like to go someplace and/or see something instead. Is he mobile?I understand in the USA everything is about things, but spending time with someone, maybe seing a performance or play, going to church, taking a little trip, ordering in for a favorite dinner and/or inviting family and friends to it - these "human touch" things are much more important then any gold or diamons or other material gifts in the world.
2007-12-08 10:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dreaming of home 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Get him a nice Christmas CD and play it for him.Your time with him will mean a lot in the long run.If he is comatose try a nice lotion to rub on his hands and feet.Sorry to hear about his condition...
2007-12-11 14:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy him some nice flannel pajamas. At least they would help keep him warmer at nights this winter. Plus maybe a threw cover for his legs and lap during the day while he is reading, watching TV, eating or just sitting around. While you are at it, get a Christmas card for him to.
2007-12-08 09:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
A musical box,the music is always soothing...a crystal ball,the things inside are beautiful...or if he still can see,bring him to somewhere there's not many buildings,on a beautiful night,and the full moon,let him see how beautiful and amazing just seeing the stars and moon...
2007-12-08 09:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by rose etoiles 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is he in a nursing home or at home with someone? is he with it? can he read or is he unconscious? maybe a tape of his favorite music,or a CD if access to a player, or a book if he likes sports or mysteries, or an audio book, or candy ,or a sweater if he is always cold or a throw for his legs.
2007-12-08 12:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by lonepinesusan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A day spent in laughter and togetherness is good. Make him part of the family. I expect he could get no better gift than that!
2007-12-08 10:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Susie Q 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Spend some quality time with him. If he can still eat ring him snacks and things he likes.
2007-12-09 01:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋