What can she do? Always be there for you? Cook and clean better than your wife? Looks better. I'm all those things and more? I need some more tips from you married guys what does it take?
2007-12-08 01:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do I'm a neat freak and she is nasty
2007-12-08 01:49:28 · update #1
I been in the house (no I'm joking)
2007-12-08 02:00:06 · update #2
I get the impression that you are the wife in this situation and my answer is that you kick the creep out and let him go if he is more interested in the affair outsie the marriage. Whether you are the wife or the mistress though, a man who will cheat is not worth the effort to get or keep him because he is more interested in sex than love.
2007-12-08 01:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married but I can give you some insight on this.
He is already with you because he 'likes' you better than his wife. So most likely you are better looking, the sex is better, you are more fun and exciting etc... But obviously that isn't enough to get him to leave.
Why? Because if he leaves his wife he will lose the following:
- Over half his money.
- His children (assuming he has them.)
So if he has some money and loves his kids, most guys aren't going to consciously give that up for a girl. Marriages that break up over infidelity usually happen because the guy gets caught, not because he willing left his wife for the other woman.
I wouldn't give up my dog for a young Pam Anderson much less half my loot, so he is going to continue banging you on the side to escape the horrible home life he has with his wife.
BTW, part of your appeal to him is the excitement of a hidden relationship. Take that away and he probably won't be that into you.
Finally, you should ask yourself why you would want to build a relationship with a man that obviously cheat. You probably have some issues you need to work on.
2007-12-08 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave, I'd keep 'em both! Look, don't be kidding yourself, it's not the domestic things that keep a guy on the hook. There's no other way to put it except crudely: it's about that enchanting little thing called "P u s s y" and the newness, the freshness, the realization that one is sampling the "forbidden fruit"...
One has to realize that the guy who cheats on his wife is selfish and immature, greedy and thoughtless. All he thinks about, when he does it at all, is a "cure" for his "headache". He won't even think about what he's giving up - a cook, a housemaid, a companion and nurse when he's sick, and all that - until he's lost it. And even then, he's got such an ego that he'll deny the loss and foolishly expect his new girlfriend to take up the slack. She may even do it for awhile - until he gets bored with her and starts the whole sordid business all over again.
If your hubby is doing that to you, thank him for liberating you and go find yourself a decent man - we're out here but you gotta look for us.
2007-12-08 11:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHHAHHA!! You should go on def comedy jam, bc you are hilarious!! HAHAHAHHAAA!! If that is the case then, why can't you find a man that is unattached? You seem like such a great catch with men lining up outside the door, the why are YOU chasing this man, who apparently doensn't want you? (As he is still with his ugly lazy wife?) Trick get a grip and come back to reality! You don't know what goes on in their house, nor do you know the type of woman she is. But I hope you get him, bc you deserve him, so when he does the same exact thing to you, you will never do this again, never think you are so much better or different then the wife again, I hope afterwards you realize that you both are victims of a lying, cheating, manipulative,selfish, azzhole!!!! Grow the *** up and get a life!
2007-12-08 09:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evidently she is doing something better than you shes got your husband attention. If that is what the sap sucker wants then let him go. Don't hold on to something that doesn't wants to be held. Set him free. I am a firm believer what goes around comes around. And they will get theirs. I knew this married couple married 25 Years and he left for a young thang in the streets. Now he and his wife has been divorced for 5 years, he has 2 kids by this young thang and isn't sure if the 2nd one is his, he stays home and babysit why she is in the streets partying, hadn't had a home cooked meal in years, and the trick can't even wash clothes she was good for one thing and one thing only. Now his ex wife has re-married with someone that appreciates her. Good for his A**. He gets everything he dished out.
2007-12-08 10:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question. I'm afraid most men won't because of kids,the lethal debate in court,and they realize there wife maybe a -b- but the mistress will have her quirks too. Most married men wish down in there minds for more than one wife,but the reason most men even have a mistress is because they make him feel young again and there going through midlife. Yes it all boils down to excitement,and sex.
As for commitment you knew from the get go there would not be any. It was a game for you as well as him. That was your choice and now is consequences. Unless he is in to polygamy, I don't see a chance of him being with you.sorry!
A real man would wait for divorce,death,or at least be honest to both you and his wife. good luck.
2007-12-08 10:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by shadow of life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a major problem, Get you own man & leave the married one's to their wives. Have you actually seen the wifes house inside, tasted her cooking? Come on get real
2007-12-08 09:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to waste your time on a married guy? OK...say he does leave his wife...what happens now? He finds himself another mistress because she does everything "better" than you do.
2007-12-08 09:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, no u only think u are all those things and more but that is only through your two eyes..no? that is what he says? well if tha is the case, it is because he wants to unlimited punani from you, sorry reality talk is a biatch aint? but at this point, it looked as though u needed it hon. peace
2007-12-08 09:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by mama2be 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an uncle ...who told me once that he had girlfriends on the side....he said...that he gets those women to do things that he knows his wife wouldn't....but he would never leave his wife for one of his women....because of the same reason that he is with them....
2007-12-08 09:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋