My Girl Friend and I had sex on october 8th she had ultrasound on 11/28 Shows that gestational age is 6 weeks and 3 days as of 11/28/2007 she said that she had sex with another man on October 13th her last period was 9/30. What is the accuracy of the Ultrasound and what do you think the chances this baby belong to who me or the other guy of course we will runDNA test but I am interested to know.
2007-12-08
01:13:02
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manfromearth2007
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Can the internal ultrasound off by 3 days?. I know she does not like commitment and did not want to marry. but would she accuse herself with cheating to keep the baby to herself.
2007-12-08
01:33:06 ·
update #1
I also remmbered now that we were togther on 8/31 at that time she was in her second day of period means that her next period start should be on 9/27 not 9/30 as she claimed and fed the ultrasound techniacian
2007-12-08
03:19:57 ·
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should I bother?
2007-12-09
04:21:17 ·
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This may sound bad, but hope the kid isn't yours and dump miss loyalty.
2007-12-08 01:22:21
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answered by Anonymous
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The first question is... What do you mean by "last period on 9/30"? It started then or finished then? I assume you mean "started", or else it's 99% likely its yours.
The rule of thumb, all things being normal, is that ovulation happens around the 14th day after last period starts. (Actually, 14th day before next period should start). Some research suggests it might be a day or 2 earlier than that. The suggestion for using rythm method for birth control, says sperm might survive up to 4 to 5 days waiting for the egg.
So odds are it's not yours. Likely she ovulated on the 13th or 14th, just in time for your buddy to assume paternity. Apparently, higher libido (h*rniness) is a symptom of ovulation, which helps explain her behaviour...?
There's the possibility that she ovulated on the 12th, or that despite being at the end of their life cycle on the 13th, your swimmers were faster than his... There's also the possibility that she ovulated about the same time you two did it. Ask women... nothing about the female plumbing is simple or regular. Funny thngs happen all the time.
As for the ultrasound. Dig around with google for fetal development information. You've seen those pictures of babies on ultrasound, and how fuzzy they are. Now consider that at 6 weeks, there is almost NOTHING there to see - what, about the size of a tic-tac? Either (a) she's feeding you a line or (b) she told the med tech when she though conception occurred and he's saying yes, that is possible. I seriously doubt any ultrasound can narrow it down to the day. She told him when and he said yes, assuming she even had an ultrasound.
If I had to bet, I'd give you 80-20 it's his not yours.
So you've got 8 months to think about the future. You've got a girlfriend who is so careless, lazy, and unfaithful that she not only did it with you unprotected (I assume this wasn't planned... unless she did it on purpose), but she cheated on you and didn't try to take precautions with him either. (Unless she's one of the 1 in 1,000 who took all their pills on time and still ended up pregnant).
Are you going to stick with her, if it turns out to be yours? Do you think she'd tolerate that kind of behaviour from you?
2007-12-08 01:58:10
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answered by Anon 7
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Sadly ultrasounds are not 100% so it could be off. I think for now you sould do what you feel is best untill your able to get a dna test. Because unless your really comitted to her, you souldn't have to support a baby that might not be yours untill you have a test. I know it sounds harsh, but i think this situation is harsh and deserves no less of a response. Im sorry that she was unfaithful. Good luck
2007-12-08 02:22:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Wow, she's so loyal. The ultrasounds (especially the internal ones) are right on the money. You need a blood test, honey.
2007-12-08 01:17:06
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answered by noitall 4
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Flip a coin.
2007-12-08 01:17:02
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answered by DR W 7
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I would say its 50/50, from my experience their dates are not usually correct.
2007-12-08 01:16:31
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answered by SunLover 4
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well considering that sperm can live in your body for 72 hours...it doesnt matter when you got preggo, it could be any of them.
2007-12-08 01:34:40
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answered by Go Away 4
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Ask the other guy to get his HIV test done, first of all !!!!
2007-12-08 01:28:07
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answered by varun s 1
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paternity test or abortion not godd not being 100 percent sure who daddy is
2007-12-08 01:17:42
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answered by malika s 2
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