2007-12-08 00:19:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop caring. That will stop the arguing, but it will also stop a whole lot else...
Seriously, we like to think our lives fit together like puzzle pieces, but we need a little friction here and there to round off our edges so we fit into each other's lives and make this mosaic we call "us".
What you need is communication. Quarreling is communicating, but perhaps a bit more civil and gentle commonication will a void this more confrontational quarreling?
PS: Talking and communicating have very little in common.
2007-12-08 00:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your quarrels do not put you off too much, then there's no need to worry. But if you do think about it a lot, then you better start communicating with your guy properly. I mean may interpret something you say differently...
But its best if you quarrel a bit. Coz after a quarrel, you know something more about each other and come closer than you were before. This way your understanding of each other will increase....
As they say, without darkness, what's light?
2007-12-08 08:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to "quarrel" once in a while, as long as neither of you loses your temper. But if it is "often", then perhaps both of you need to find some time and sit down and talk to each other. Make sure that both of you are not distracted by other things while talking. Make an appointment to do nothing except to "talk." After the initial talk to understand why both of you quarrel, try making a similar appoint to talk the following week. Try this for a few weeks.
2007-12-08 08:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Andy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguments are part of every relationship, either its petty or big issue, dealing with misunderstanding and talking about problem simply make you know your partner better and make your relationship stronger each time you guys surpassed a trial.. even a married couple quarrel and argue.. its how you guys handle the relationship and wanting to make the relationship work. "You love him, he love you" is the only thing you guys should always keep in mind..
2007-12-08 08:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if in the big picture (the rest of your life) how important is this issue? The answer is usually, not worth the time, trouble, bad feeling or energy. It might even make you feel a little silly over the pettiness of the argument. Then let it go and move on.
2007-12-08 08:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Choqs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I dont know what Trifles are, but my husband and I get into little fights all the time. Its no big deal. Plus, making up is the best part.
2007-12-08 08:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great relationship is one where you dedicate your life to making the other person happy and that person to make you happy. Arguments do not fit into this formula.
You both need to work on getting along without fighting. If you cannot, find someone else.
2007-12-08 08:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find yourself about to quarrel, ask yourself this question: "Why am I about to spend $1,000 worth of energy on a 5 cents irritation?"
2007-12-08 08:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in every relationship theres a little quarrel and thats what makes the relationship special, intersting and prevents you from gettin bored......
just like everyone is with there parents....
you cant do anythin to avoid them ......
and everything happens for a reason............
2007-12-08 08:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ups and downs are life -- (it need not be) end the quarrel with a kiss..problem solved enjoy life.wishes
2007-12-08 08:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋