My Mom's Friend Hates Me!!?

Question

Im 14 years old and my mom's friend hates me. She is very nasty to me and she yells at me. What should I do.

Answer 1

you can find out why she seems to hate you then you have three options...
1) don't mind her
2) don't give her a reason to hate you
3) tell your mom to find a new friend who will love you

Answer 2

Why does she yell at you? Do you not help out around the house, do you talk with respect yourself, or other wise? Do you get good grades and do the best you can to succeed in life? or do you let it all just pass you by, like it don't mean anything.
To get respect you have to know how to respect others.
To get approval, you need to be approved of.
Usually the way a person is treated is how they treat others.
If your mom treats you bad, then you probably have a tendancy to treat her bad also.
Make the first move, and be Adult about the matter and show her differently then what she is thinking and her friends are thinking now. Proove em wrong! Can you?

Answer 3

I seem to remember that, when I was 14, (a kajillion years ago...) I became aware that my eldest sister was annoyed by my sorry attempts at whistling along with music.

She'd yell at me, or make some kind of smart-alec put-down--which would cause me to redouble my efforts to whistle even louder to annoy her some more.

My other sister once accused me of scalding her while she was in a shower by flushing a toilet in the other bathroom. She was convinced that running water anywhere in the house caused the shower to get hotter. (It didn't-- but she screamed and carryied on about it.) I responded, naturally, by turning on every faucet I could find as soon as she went back to finish her shower.

My point is this. Are you sure you're not turning on the water faucets when you mom's friend is around?

Answer 4

lol..my mom hates a friend of mine too. My mom complains she too loud & nutorious.But I think My mom just dislikes her for dating guys at a very early age. But I hate to admit but sometimes she does talk without thinkin' wheter she'll hurt people with her words.After all, The tongue is the sharpest weapon.So are you sure you haven't done anything above that my friend did? I realise that mothers can be ultra sensetive at times & they make sure their daughters mix with the proper group of friends . Why don't try talking to your friend? Maybe her mother doesnt hate you. Maybe she treats all your friend's friends the same way. so chill.

Answer 5

It's not you, she probably does it to everyone. She is stressed out and taking it out on you which is a very horrible thing to do to a 14 year old. Tell your mum how you feel, if she doesn't do anything confide in another adult that you trust.

Answer 6

Tell your mom you don't want to be around her. She shouldn't be yelling at you like that.

Answer 7

Kill her. You be doing your Mom a favor seeing as she doesn't know how to chose friends very well.
But seriously. Ask your Mom to make her stop. Good luck sweetie.

Answer 8

Talk to your mom; tell her how her friend's behaviour hurts you. Your mom may be able to tell you *why* this person is so nasty to you, or she may tell her to leave you alone. I think she should.

Answer 9

well wen she shouts at u tell her tht she's not ur mum and tell ur mum she would probaly do something and try to stay away from her and if tht dunt work play the same game like watever she shouts at you for do the same thing show her ur not scared

Answer 10

Go tell your mom to ask why is she like that to you
you've should add more details on what happened why is she like that to you