2007-12-07 21:57:12 · 24 answers · asked by b l 1 in Travel ➔ Europe (Continental) ➔ Russia
why to pay money? is for sell?
2007-12-10 19:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by angelioana 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi there,
I do not know how much and I think it should not be: how much should I pay..., instead you should say: what can I give her?
Let's analize the situation:
The Russian girl is seeking a better life. She does not really know you, but still she is willing to leave everything behind, take her family and come to an unfamiliar country, and to an unfamiliar man. She is seeking security, comfort and a home.
Everything will depend on you. The moment she arrives, she will be depend upon you. Needless to say, she is pretty desperate.
In my opinion, the only way for this to succeed is, when she arrives, you give her respect and love, but deal strongly with her if she tries to use you, or tries to manipulate you. Show her that you are a man! When I say: deal strongly, I mean in words, not with force. Stand by your principles!
Then it can go two ways. If she has a good soul, she will learn to love you, or at least, she will have the decency to tell you that you are unfortunately not the ONE for her.
If she has bad intentions, subconsciously you will know, and I hope you will act upon it, and do the right thing. For her and your sake.
If you want to make this work, you will have to work hard at it.
This is not only the case with Russian girls, but with all girls from poor countries or backgrounds whom do not have any chance for a life in their own country.
I wish you all the best, and don't offer her money - offer her love.
2007-12-07 22:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by tinkie k 1 · 3⤊ 4⤋
i'd say, because I take position to be in love with a Russian guy, that he's nicely genuinely worth the wait, yet now that he's "stressful" marriage, nicely that's amazingly unusual! what number circumstances have you ever seen and met with him in human being? out of your message it variety of feels you've customarily interacted over the phone. How did you meet him? the opportunity of folk holding their toddlers so sheltered, and not in any respect allowing them to have some authentic-international adventure and interplay, is they're better easily fooled by technique of better worldly persons. i'd say in a lot of circumstances, to believe the way you sense and your instinct. i'm merely not particular how a lot you are able to believe your human being emotions and instincts because (no offense) you'd be very sheltered and also because you've gotten had little or no authentic time interacting along with your boyfriend. procuring you chocolates and a cellular telephone isn't sufficient to provide up your household and protection for! appears like a scam to me, i'm sorry. He might want to have 5 different ladies with whom he has similar relationships. i love a Russian guy, yet he tells me each day, that an excellent variety of folk in Russia are out to tear-off people because they're attempting to get ahead or merely merely proceed to exist in a tricky economic device. best of luck to you in existence and in love! i recognize your want to branch out and adventure new cultures and recommendations. Please do not enable it endanger your existence or destiny. you're youthful with many opportunities, love your self, and believe in your self, not somebody else.
2016-10-26 14:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by buitron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what the hell is wrong with you? Do you want to get scammed? Don't send any money over if you don't want to get scammed. They are just using you for the visa and to get your money. Really, are you that gullible? Apparently...
What's wrong with you that you get a girl from your own homeland? Seriously, go find a nice American girl to marry.
2007-12-09 15:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by ArAmG 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hahaha God are u kidding me? come on dude! russians are not like Arabian or something lol... They are normal people! Its like a question "how much should a french dude pay to an american girl and her family 2 take her home 2 live with him?" wat the hell? u dont have to pay, u have to love thats it! And by the way only american could ask such a question! gee u wacky people lol
2007-12-08 07:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Do women really dislike you that much that you have to BUY a wife? If you honestly think that in the 21st century you can still buy a person, then you should crawl out from under that rock you've been living under your whole life. People like you DESERVE to be scammed. Multiple times.
2007-12-08 06:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Misanthropist 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
By accepting money or paying money for marriage you are committing visa fraud.
Visa fraud is a Federal Offense which carries a sentence of 10 years for a first offense not tied to terrorism or drug trafficking. You could also face a 15 year sentence if found guilty of fraud with other criminal links.
Edit:
Here is a nice little article for you to read about this very matter in todays LA Times.
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-craigslist7dec07,1,3217185.story?coll=la-headlines-california&ctrack=2&cset=true
"From the Los Angeles Times
Pair arrested in green card marriage that resulted from Web ads
A Russian woman blatantly stated her objective in her postings. Her lawyer says she didn't know such marriages were illegal. ..."
2007-12-07 22:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by CPG 7 · 10⤊ 3⤋
Somebody report to the police about this guy. Look(pay attention to his previous questions here) , he wants a virgin young Russian girl to be loyal to him till the death. And he wants to buy her! It makes me think, that he wants to kidnap a girl, pay her parents to make them leave him alone, to keep silence. And than he would keep her in chains forever, I believe.
Common, you - a sick creature, what makes you think that anyone would agree to marry you or would allow you to marry his/her child, if you can't find a women without paying her. I think you better go somewhere and buy a prostitute. This is an only kind of women that suits you! >:-(
2007-12-08 10:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
if you wanna get a prostitute in your house - you'll pay.
Normal russian girl put your money into your ***. The same about her parents.
2007-12-09 08:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love each other why should you pay? They don't pay a bride-money in Russia like in Eastern countries.
2007-12-08 05:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by vasanna01 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why would you payin someone to live with you? Do not understand? You can not buy all things with money, buyin love is impossible
2007-12-08 23:17:29 · answer #11 · answered by Matic 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋