I've never had sex before. Today my boyfriend was fingering me, and something happened and it really hurt so we stoped. When I got back to my place there was a lot of blood on my underwear and i was still bleeding a bit.
Did I just pop my cherry?
2007-12-07 19:49:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Not my period...I'm on the pill (get it once every 4 months type) and I'm not due for another month and a half.
2007-12-07 20:33:31 · update #1
i think i exaggerated on a lot...but i was just suprised.
2007-12-07 20:36:25 · update #2
Yes, it's absolutely normal. No need to worry, just relax. If it continues to bleed in a day or two, unprovoked... you might have been scratched. Just allow it to heal!
2007-12-07 19:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by SilentWay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bloody Cherry Pop
2016-11-07 03:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard there could be a lot, but from both my experience and others, there has been very little to no blood at all. It seems like it could have "popped" but it may have not broken all the way, so I wouldn't consider this your first time, though. It's possible it will be the only blood you see, or you may see a bit more during your first time. This experience happens a lot to girls.
Sex certainly will hurt the first few to 10 times or so. Eventually it will stop hurting. Most girls this it will be great, but most times it's not, so now with that experience in mind I hope you make the right decision and when and with who your first time will be with.
2007-12-07 19:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um that sounds like either your period came or you may have been infected or irritated which causes a rupture hence blood. By popping your cherry did you mean breaking your hymen or having an orgasm?? I think you meant break your hymen. I would not be quick to say you popped your cherry from what you suggested. I have some questions for you to answer yourself...how old are you? how often do you let your bf do that? was that your first time?? are you sexually active aside from sexual intercourse ( i see you said you didnt have sex but you still may do other things)...
You shouldnt let someone do that without protection and your consent....for all you know you may have an infection, go see your physician or ob gyn...if you dont have an ob gyn, get one if you intend on being sexually active
many girls are so active these days they break their hymens without sometimes not even being aware of it doing some vigorous excercise, etc. your hymen may already be broken depending how physically active you are, etc.
2007-12-07 20:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥CJ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you did. Even gymnasts can pop their cherry doing some sort of routine. But not every girl bleeds a lot. It really depends on your body. Now, I guess when you do decide to have sex, it won't hurt as much as you'd think. I know of some girlfriends that have had their "cherry" pop by foreplay, and having intercourse for the first time wasn't painful and full of pleasure only.
2007-12-07 19:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by 7155_0 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you dont mind me asking, have you got your period yet. And it doesnt necesarily mean that your cherry has popped because you could do the splits or riding a horse or being a physical person and break your hymn (when your hymn breaks, that means your cherry has popped. My hymn broke at 9 and I didnt have sex or get fingered until I was 18 (by choice), so really it does depend on a few factors in life in general.
2007-12-07 20:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably did, but don't be scared.
My cherry popped when I was about 17,
when I had my first pelvic exam. It wasn't too bad.
Also, if it hurt you a lot, then it's probably likely that
you got scratched inside when he fingered you.
Just relax & let it heal completely. It'll be ok. :-)
2007-12-07 20:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by chicaboom333♎♈♑ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used tampons as a teen, so I didn't have that moment.
But I did have sex that was not lubricated enough and it tore my vagina...and that was around ago 40. I lost my virginity as a teen, so basically, the blood thing can happen again.
2007-12-07 19:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds as if you did have your hymen break. There can be some blood that comes with that hymen breaking but not always. When my hymen broke at age 18 due to my first pelvic exam and pap smear I did not have any bleeding afterward.
2007-12-07 19:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by sokokl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know go to a doctor or another time he do like this talk to him that to don't hurt you when he is doing some thing with you
2007-12-07 19:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋