I was talking to my friend who has a friend who is a teacher or parepro, but she says in middle school now-a-days kids are getting together and having oral sex parties. can you believe that?
2007-12-07 17:42:34 · 17 answers · asked by just me 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
its so sad that these kids are prolly gonna have aids before they are old enough to understand how serious sex is and what its all about. what is happening to this world, its nuts! and scary to think we have to raise kids in this era.
2007-12-07 17:55:45 · update #1
My little sister is in middle school, she tells me about people she knows having sex in the bathrooms at school and some of them even do cocaine.
Thank God, I've threatened her life enough times that she doesn't do that...
("Have sex or do drugs and I will kill you!") xD
I also have a friend in one of my classes, he's a freshman (in high school), and when he was asked one day why he dates girls from middle school, he replied, "For the sex."
Really, the best thing we can do is try to have as much positive influence on people younger than us as possible. I try my best to show my sister, and her friends when she has them over, and even people younger than me in my classes, that you can live your life to the fullest and be happy without sex or drugs or anything like that.
Kids aren't told the consequences of having sex enough... They aren't told that it's over-glorified in the media and it's nothing like they think it is...
I mean, these are MIDDLE SCHOOLERS for goodness sakes! They're impressionable, if they're told that sex is good and fun without being told the consequences, they're going to go out and try it.
To be totally honest, when I have kids, I'm strongly considering locking them in the house until they're 40...
Long story short, I'm pretty much ashamed of these little kids... They're babies, they don't need to be making babies. Hopefully they'll mature sometime soon and realize how pointless all this is...
2007-12-08 07:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by RMFT 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Middle-schoolers are about 12-14 yrs old. I believe that many have oral sex and others have sex. It concerns me greatly that they don't understand the seriousness of what they are doing. The girls sadly get called HO's while the guys just laugh about it. The girls will all regret it, but by then it will of course be too late. I just hope they don't end up with a lifetime souvenir for their actions....HIV or kids or even both.
2007-12-08 05:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet there are. It's societies fault in the first place. The reason why we have an issue with sex is because our society in general frowns on talking about it. Sexual Education is the key and it's a fact that abstinent only programs do not work. Hmmm so what does that mean. It means changing the corriculum to educate students from a certain age on what sex is what sex isn't and how to protect themselves.
2007-12-07 22:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by Steven R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't picture any of the middle school kids I know doing oral sex. I mean, they barely even understand sex jokes. Some of them don't even know how to jack off or have an orgasm.
2007-12-07 17:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by TaDaa! 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I'm in middle school and it doesn't happen where I live. At my school, the best gossip is about "who kissed whom", never about anything worse.
2007-12-08 04:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Squeegee Beckingheim :-) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOT to be an urban myth. Maybe a few places, a few kids, but not a LOT of places, a LOT of kids.
2007-12-08 01:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As horrible as it is. I very much believe it.
Espically since I graduated a few years ago. And even then, you would walk around school and see girls in PJs, slippers, wobbleing around could hardly walk. It looked like a teenage maternity ward.
2007-12-07 17:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by J. 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Oh,yeah i believe it,thats why my son will go to private school or be home schooled.Its crazy whats going on with kids these days.I want to know where are the parents of these kids?
2007-12-07 17:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by momof1sweetboy 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
this is another good reason to know where your kids are and what they are doing when they are under driving age.. and even then, they need to check in and let you know what they are doing.
2007-12-07 20:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In middle school? Maybe in 8th grade but not in 6th graders (they wouldn't be inited anyways. ) I believe that.
2007-12-07 18:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋