He is just talking to them nasty and in every way but is it enough to leave him we have kids and been together for 6 years he left again and I just caught him talking to some young girl feeeding her head with bullshit is it a game to him or do you think i should leave him or do counseling first he hasnt sleep with them he somehow just gets turned on by chatting with them on the phone and makking them fall in love with him making them think they are the only one and he has been suffering and talking nasty with them what should i do
2007-12-07 16:10:57 · 11 answers · asked by SlantedEyedChick♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try counciling at first,if that does not work than cut his balls !,just kidding,try to know why he is doing this sort of thing,maybe it is coz he does not feel secure enough about his self,try to get to the root of the problem,understanding and support is very important here,coz you have kids so divorce is a little hard in your case.good luck to you,i hope all goes well in the end.
2007-12-09 06:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get into counseling with you or you need to leave him. If you mean by oversees, Iraq, this could be a result of that but on the other hand Scott Petterson was talking trash to Amber Frey and look what happened there! This is abuse, whether to you or not and it could very well turn against you in time. better to get the counseling and try to work this out or get the divorce!!
2007-12-07 16:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He IS CHEATING! Regardless of what he tells you, he's breaching the contract of your marriage vows because he's becoming emotionally involved with someone else.
He needs help! You suggested counseling and he definitely needs it to understand why he is the way he is.....of course he will say that it's "nothing" and he's not really cheating, but can you accept the fact that you will deal with this behavior for as long as you're married to him?
I understand your concern for the children, it's harder to make a decision to go when you have kids because of so many factors, financial and otherwise.
How old is he? He sounds very immature. I hope that your decision .....whatever it is, is the right one for you.
2007-12-07 16:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have any kids then get out. He is not worth the energy and since he is usually over seas then you need not see him again - totally out of your life. How nice. Then you can find a guy that is NORMAL and not a NUTT case that cant see that it is not normal to do what he is doing.
2007-12-07 16:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by live&learn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating, mentally or physically, is cheating. This includes watching pornography, "nasty" talk with others, etc. This is a cardinal sin in any relationship, and warrants divorce. Best of luck to you.
2007-12-07 16:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by justme 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You could try counciling. What he is doing is still cheating in my book. You are the one he should be talking dirty too on the phone.
2007-12-07 16:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not nice. It does make you look good when the girls fine out who you and him are married.
And the girl gets hurt emotionally.
Talk to him for one thing. maybe the girls names on a list.
Even a thought of you and husband and the girls have a 3 way talk- Idea
Hope things Better
Best of luck
2007-12-07 16:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry but if he isn't afraid to talk the talk with all of these girls he is walking the walk!
2007-12-07 16:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Amberlyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a female soldier, and actually, i would bet money that he is sleeping with them
2007-12-07 16:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE'S A CheatER
2007-12-07 16:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by megavolt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋