It's been over a year when my husband told me that he was no longer happy in our relationship and that he wants out. He drops this bomb on me a week after our son turned 1 years old. Since then I moved out of the state I was living in to make a better life for myself, two kids and my mom came too. Now about a month ago he decided that he wanted to work things out so he moved up here but is living with his brother. When we were together I suspected he was cheating and caught him. Now that he's up here I still have that same feeling. Being that he's living with his brother doesn't mean a damn thing to me. He still has those same signs and when I ask him he says that there is no one and that I should trust him. How do I do that?
2007-12-07 16:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly Gal! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you feel it then don;t set yourself up. Move on. You are doing fine with your kids and your mom so let him be. If he wants to be involved with his child, you will have to come to some happy middle place for that but you should leave well enough alone.
2007-12-07 16:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not marital trust. My husband is hosting a bachelor party right now and I know he will not have sex with someone else. I know this because I trust him. I just know. THAT'S TRUST. I know because he has never given me a reason not to trust. I know because he's all about me and would never risk our love.
My husband is not my first serious relationship and I've been cheated on plenty. I FOUND A GIRL HIDING IN A CLOSET!
The best advice I could give, is that if he has found a happy place in his life and still wants to be with you, that means something. Don't take some desperate guy back.
2007-12-07 16:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by chuckyoufarley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the two gotten to the factor the place some thing small that used to bypass by left out is now an severe irritability. It in basic terms seems such as you're doing for your self. He taken care of you incorrect, with out equity, you addressed him approximately it and he shrugged it off. you've got communicated it even nevertheless it wasn't taken to heart. in case you the two choose this to artwork out you are able to desire to truly admire one yet another. If he places forth the attempt to compliment you, do issues for you, and notwithstanding else you choose him to do to help you interior the relationship, then you definately can do for him. such as donning outfits he's of a similar opinion with or notwithstanding. all of us develop into complacent. we expect of they won't in any respect bypass away and could purely exchange while its too late. i'm hoping each little thing seems.
2016-11-14 20:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says hes not happy with the marriage then you guys go your seperate ways and now hes coming back saying he wants to work things out huh sounds to me like hes playing head games.no trust there
2007-12-07 16:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by lynn e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't. Once you loose trust in someone that is it. It may seem like you trust them but you never will as fully as you did.
2007-12-07 16:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with your life and tell him you aren't interested. I wouldn't trust him either.
2007-12-10 05:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it's meant to be..sounds "irretrievable broken" to me.
2007-12-07 16:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him no
2007-12-07 16:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by matthew v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋