true or false?
2007-12-07 15:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
well,legally speaking,it was statutory rape,but I didn't accuse him of anything,and my mother just dropped it.And he's an immigrant.but he wants to see his child
2007-12-07 16:15:04 · update #1
Depends on the laws where you live. She does have some right to do it but you and the father need to go to court to get it resolved.
2007-12-09 07:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a minor - a minor with a baby does not equal an adult. So, yes your mother can legally prevent you from seeing the father.
That being said if the father goes to court and establishes visitation (which will also mean child support) then he has a right to see his child - and your mother cannot stop that. She can stop you from being present when he is with the child.
Sounds to like your mother does not like this man -- and if there is enough of an age difference that it could be considered statutory rape then I don't think I would like him very much either.
2007-12-08 07:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Susie D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't just say "you can't see him" but.......
If she chose to it would be easy. There was a birth so proving statutory rape would be simple. Charges could be levied even if it had been a few years. He may get off of all of that but he is illegal and would be on the radar.
He is illegal so a simple call to the police just on that alone would be enough regardless of statutory rape. Your mother could easily just get an attorney and start a certain process. You will have no defense as you are a minor and he is illegal. Child services and restraining orders might easily come into play. Are you prepared for you child to be taken away for a time?
She makes one simple phone call and it will start. Who is babysitting or paying for heat, lights or anything? Can you prove that you could TOTALLY support the child on your own? If not your mother could gain guardianship.
Your family is your family. So you best just comply because it would take her nothing to ensure that he AND you don't see the child.
2007-12-08 12:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother has your best interest in mind. It seems that the father of your son is not a very responsible person. Does help with your son in any way, emotionally, or financially. Does your mother support both you and your baby? She might be preventing you from making a second baby with him that she also will have to support.
Yes, as long as you are a minor and reside under her roof, she has control over who comes to her home. She is also legally responsible for your welfare and she can put restrictions on your conduct.
If he really wants to see his child, make him go the legal way and pay support. Otherwise, are you sure that the only thing this creep may want is not to get back into your pants again?
2007-12-08 00:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ti 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The operative word is; "Minor" You have no rights your mother is still responsible for you. You didn't say why she feels this way. If she feels this way, I am sure there is a good reason she doesn't want you around him. My guess he is a two bit-punk and has caused a lot of problems in her home. I believe that's why you left this part out of your question. You only gave enough information to garner the answer into your favor.
2007-12-08 00:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by wind champ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She's probably still upset from becoming a young grandmother. She wants what's best for you. But there is something missing. Are you attending school? Is he abusive or dead weight? I'm pretty sure if he was positive, supportive mentally and financially and respectful then she wouldn't have any problems with him. Talk to your mom and listen to what she has to say. She may have your best interest at heart.
2007-12-08 00:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Redcianna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. I think that would be wrong UNLESS he's unhealthy for you and the child in some way. Such as...abusive, irresponsible, that pretty much sums it up. I would think that there is definately a reason why she's doing it, although I DO also know that some parents are unreasonable lots of time such as mine were.
2007-12-08 00:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, seeing as she is your legal guardian I get the feeling she does until you become a legal adult. However, I am not a law major and not even American so what do I know?
2007-12-08 00:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Emily D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be true, as you are a minor and unable to legally make your own decisions.
If the age difference is more than four years, the state can file charges, and I sincerely hope they do. My suggestion to your mother would be to file charges herself and get him deported.
2007-12-08 00:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by DOOM 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? How old is the father? If he is more than 21 he may have committed a crime. If not, where are his parents?
Under a certain age she has the right.
2007-12-08 00:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋