2007-12-07 14:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by Tut Tut 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
A better question is why do girls let themselves be talked into having sex so easily?
It takes two to "become pregnant." All she has to say is one little word - NO.
Abstinence before marriage is the best way. A man who waits will be harder to find but well worth it.
2007-12-07 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
honestly, because they chose to get pregnant while not married or engaged
Yes, guys can be jerks, but having a baby to "keep a man" is the dumbest thing to do. It is wrong to purposely get pregnant without a solid family foundation.
If you have done what you should, use birth control, respect yourself FIRST, then find a committed relationship and he still leaves, I say good riddance!
And honey, even if you've made a million mistakes and are in a terrible situation, you still have every right in the world to get child support from the louse!
2007-12-07 22:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because a girl who agrees to pre-marital sex is asking for it.
The way the man sees it is "why buy the cow (commit) when you're getting the milk (sex) for free?"
I'm not condoning the men who desert women, I'm just pointing out that BOTH are at fault when this situation occurs. Obviously, neither the guy nor the girl were thinking ahead or thinking responsibly or morally.
2007-12-07 22:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Knight of Malta 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
because so many girls think the guy will stay with them. and they dont.
dont understand why so many people find the need to become pregnant before they get married. then they wonder why the guy left.
2007-12-07 22:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because they weren't really looking for a commitment with the girl in the first place, and a baby entering the picture would tie him down with her for 'life.' That's a huge step to take, and he got scared and ran.
2007-12-07 22:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by punchy333 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are losers and don't want responsibility.
The girl shouldn't have been having sex with them in the first place.
That is why you get married first before you have sex and get pregnant.
2007-12-07 22:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tigger 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Im not with my baby's dad anymore. No he didnt leave me, i left him before i knew i was pregnant. But we still act like we are together and he says we are gunna get married. =]
2007-12-07 23:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by J Now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of reasons. none of them are acceptable.....he doesn't want to be tied down, felt like the responsibilty for birth control was hers, he was just wanting a good time, had other plans for the future, feels too young, not ready, trapped, .....the list goes on....what it boils down to is if you get pregnant, you may not be able to count on a bf to stick by you.
2007-12-07 22:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by kittymom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
simply because they dont want to face the consequence of what they had done. they dont want responsibilities. they are afraid of getting into that kind of situation. maybe they just want to play around but eventually got into a real serious scenario. which for them is not what they want to have yet.
2007-12-07 22:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they're young, and chickenshit. They get scared, panic, and run away.
It's sad...not only do they screw themselves out of the life of a wonderful baby, they (most likely) break the heart of the girl they carelessly had sex with without a condom or some other form of birth control.
2007-12-07 22:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋