Something your embarrassed about or ashamed of, no one knows about it but you, but every now and then it comes up in your mind. You don't want it there, but it keeps visiting?
2007-12-07 14:13:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hey! stupid heart, this is a communication site, if you can't stand the heat, get an air conditioner, or stay away from questions that leave you confused and frustrated! STUPID!!!
2007-12-07 15:48:02 · update #1
Hey! stupid heart, this is a communication site, if you can't stand the heat, get an air conditioner, or stay away from questions that leave you confused and frustrated! STUPID!!!
2007-12-07 15:48:41 · update #2
I do that sometimes.
I know these seem stupid, but they caused me to lose sleep at night. There's nothing I could do now to change things, and it wouldn't matter anyway because they aren't that big a deal in the big scheme of things, but...here goes:
I was telling a client a personal story about another client once, and it turns out they knew each other. I know I shouldn't have been talking about my client, but it seemed an appropriate example in that situation - except that the client I was talking to already knew the story. Neither ever came back.
I went to a really fancy wedding as somebody's +1, but even though it was fancy in location and ceremony I wasn't informed it was casual dress for everybody not in the wedding party. I didn't have money to buy a different nice dress, so I showed up in the only fancy dress I had - cream colored and spaghetti strapped - with my hair all piled on top of my head. I thought the cream would be overlooked if everyone was dressed fancy, but with everybody else in jeans, it looked like I was trying to show up the bride. I spent the entire wedding in my date's leather jacket, and it was an all day event. I looked really good, but I still can't stand to look at the pictures. That was five years ago, and I'm sure nobody remembers it, but I start sweating and get all prickly when I think about it.
I tell myself it isn't worth it, and it doesn't matter, but I can't help how I feel. It does get better with time though. Like...a lot of time. But it's definitely not as intense as it used to be.
Just remember that it doesn't determine who you are, and at least you learned something from the experience. It will get better.
2007-12-07 14:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by katykangaroo8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Its called remorse and regrets. If you don't have them your likely overly religious or a sociopath, or a religious sociopath.
2007-12-07 22:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_l_robinson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah defo!
but do new stuff and tell your self
wat happened back then will never happen again..trust me nothing is worse then messing up a dance infront of 150,000 people
2007-12-07 22:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah and they will sneak up on you when you least aspect it. like you'll be eating dinner when *BAM* something you regret that happened later in life comes right back in your memory
2007-12-07 22:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by goASKalice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No absolutely nothing . I am at peace
2007-12-07 23:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You betcha!
C. :)!!
2007-12-07 22:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋