I often think im really fat and ugly whenever i look in the mirror. people in my school are always making fun out of me and calling me names (saying im ugly). My friends call me anorexic b/c they know how i feel about my weight and they started it as a joke thats gone too far. But people are always commenting on my appearance, calling me fat , laughing at me and the boys think im ugly as well.
as for weight im about 118lbs and 5ft7
these are the only pictures i have, sorry if their not very clear:
http://i258.photobucket.com/albums/hh250/Kt_South/P11-27-07_0317.jpg
http://i258.photobucket.com/albums/hh250/Kt_South/P11-27-07_0141.jpg
sorry about the question as i know some people get annoyed by this type of question.
i dont like the idea of having photos on the internet so when this question is ended i will def take the pictures off =\
i wanted to know what other people thought about it...
2007-12-07 14:08:36 · 31 answers · asked by ☆♥..Kt South☆ 4 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
for the last 3 messages, sorry when i logged off i took the pictures off b/c i didnt know when i was coming back online
2007-12-08 06:55:14 · update #1
your not their just jelious and want to bring u down for it, and just remember highschool will be over soon enough then u can get to become an adult where ppl arent like that, i was teased alot in school and found out alot of it had to do with boys actually liked me but were too embaresed to act on it so they do the imature thing and try to make u feel like **** so u wont ( or anybody for that matter) know it haha,just laugh it off and laugh at your self and dont let( i know its hard) your peers make or break you, you make or break you and if you listen to them and let what they say determind how you see yourself then how can you ever keep your head up. remember to love who you are and be glad for you are made in Gods image and how he views us is what matteres and he looks at our hearts.
2007-12-07 14:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I truly and honestly think that you are very beautiful. You have gorgeous big eyes with a lot of expression and just look like an awesome person. I am not answering for points, but what I truly believe. And hun, you are NOT fat in anyyyy way, In fact you are perfect, even a litttleeeee bit underweight. Hon, your friends are so jealous, you dont even know. Your beauty is truly classic and timeless. I think you resemble tegan and sara,who I think are some of the prettiest singers ever. Also, boys are only intimated of you. Don't let them get to you. Just stay your beautiful self. Good luck girl and have a wonderful holiday!
2007-12-07 14:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have absolutely no reason to think you are fat or ugly. You are also at a time in your life where your friends are highly influential on your self esteem. Please don't allow them to make insulting jokes about eating disorders. If their behaviour makes you that uncomfortable, be the bigger person and confront them about this issue.
Also, if you are that upset about your self image, you should strongly consider seeking a little bit of professional help. Often times they have a way of making you see your situation in a different light that will give you clarity and peace of mind. Hating your reflection is a horrible feeling and I know exactly how you feel, because I was once that was when I was young.
2007-12-07 14:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pictures are fine....alot of girls seem to have this problem your not alone in this many girls face pressure when it comes to their weight you are not fat you are neither to skinny.....you are just yourself and that is beautiful alone...never let anyone tell you otherwise they are only jealous because they hide behind a mask of something they arn't so be proud of who you are I think your beautiful and as long as you do too thats all that really matters....about the boys thing...they like to raddle cages well into their 30's don't let them get you down instead show confidence that you love who you are I am sure all will go well once you realize :)
thats all for now
~porcelain
2007-12-07 14:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have some self esteem issues. you should work on that. go to a therapist. not everyone sees you the way you see you. as for ppl at school, dont listen to them, go on about your day and act like you dont care what they think, cuz you shouldnt. as long as you love you, thats all that matters. have some confidence. if you really wanna feel better about the way you look, you could trim your self down little by little the healthy way till you reach a healthy weight. go to the gym and work out, make it fun, go to a dietian and they can help you with healthy eating habits. Although your not fat and it's all in your mind
Good Luck, and Be Happy, Have Confidence and good self esteem, no one else will see you as the good person you are if you dont feel that way about yourself.
2007-12-07 14:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? You're gorgeous and not even close to being fat. I think your weight is right on. Me, I think I've gained loads of weight. I need to lose like 30 lbs to reach the maximum "OKAY" weight for my height.
With beauty and a body like that, you could be a model for sure! No joke!
2007-12-07 14:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U LOOK VERY PRETTY!
but u a lil 2 skinny not to fat @ all!
but u do need 2 gaine sum weight no offence but u dont look anerexic at all!
:0
-shorty
2007-12-07 14:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are calling you names, then you need some new friends love
as for your looks your really pretty, and your on the slimmer side, esp. for your height
I would ignore mean people at school, or take it as a compliment, because they are just jealous
but if people that you consider friends are acting that way they are contributing to lowering your self esteem
Talk to them, and if they don't get over their childishness get new friends
best of luck to you!
2007-12-07 14:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're certainly not fat. Be careful not to lose any more weight. I think you're very cute. You have a very pretty face. You ought to pull your hair back and show it off more. And smile now and then. It makes everyone look more beautiful.
2007-12-07 14:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by TG 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i am 5"4, 97 pounds.
thats because i had ED before and stuff
But you are pretty skinny, and you have a clear, white skin with big eyes :)
you look fine. i can't say to a person rather they are beautiful or ugly. you find out yourself.
being unique is something that peopel get jelous of.
2007-12-07 14:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by couturevogue 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋