alrite so long story short my "best friend" decided to tell his whole religion class that I was bisexual. Not only did the word about me being bi get around but this rumor starter Kate switched it around saying i was a lesbian. Now in the girls locker room if i look up im automatically "checking them out" if i hug my female friends im a lez. At first I let it go but , im not so sure about what to do. I hate it bad enough people think im strange but now im compeletly singled out. How do I handle this? Do I just ignore it and let it blow over, or talk to a higher authority? I am so confused help please
2007-12-07 14:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That was REALLY unfair of your friend... he's an ***. What you do next largely depends on how you feel. This will probably blow over.
2007-12-07 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are straight, ditch the best friend. If Kate wants to be friends - tell her no. If she wants to apologize- say the only way is for her to tell everyone that she told the truth.
Explain to Kate if you are bi or lesbian that it was your decision when to tell and not hers. Tell her you no longer can trust her so you no longer want to be friends. Then struggle with the truth and stand tall and look people in the eye and tell them you are the same person they knew before they knew about your sexuality.
2007-12-07 22:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and report BOTH of these individuals to the school authorities. They need a good dose of reality called "legal reciprocation action" as a lawyer would say.
2007-12-07 22:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋