HELLO every1!!!
i stopped takin any preaution 2 months ago because i want to fall pregnant ...at the beginning of my relationship 2 years ago) with my boyfriend whom i live with now i told him i didnt want kids because i was silly and didnt want to scare him or whatever..HE SAID he didnt want anymore either, but i dnt know if he did to make me happy or cus he really meant it....but now we are really in love,have a really good family and really want kids. living with his 2 and being a mom for them in every aspects really made me realise that...but i dont know how to tell him.....i geniunlly forgot to get my pills last month and did it on purpose this month...he dnt have a problem comin inside me and id really like to tell him tht i want a baby of our own..i just dont know how...HELP PLEASE
2007-12-07 13:53:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
prince whatever i hope u fuckin rot in bloody hell mate ur a pathetic!! i think there are many other ways of expressin opinions and there is absolutely no need to slag some1 u dnt know off like this. i didnt put all the details to shorten th story up..it wud hv been 2 long! he knows i am not takin th pill n he still has no probs comin inside me whatsoever.i asked him if he preferred usin a condom (i had them ready in case he said yes)but he said no. all th many times ive asked him he said "no" or "do i look like i wanna put a condom on" or "theres no need" or "i love u"....
in the past he admitted tht somtimes he has said things jst 2 try to make me happy n avoid th arguments. n i think he said he didnt want anymore kids when i was sayin i didnt want any or when our parents were pressuring us not to have any more. plus, think, bein him well grown up aswell i thought he wud hv realised wat he was doin. ITS SO EASY 2 SLAG ME OFF, BUT IF HE DIDNT WANT A BABY Y DOES HE ACT LIKE HE DOES???
2007-12-08 04:08:48 · update #1
I AM NOT TRICKIN ANY` INTO FATHERHOOD!! IF HE DOESNT WANT A BABY WHY DOESNT HE TAKE THE RIGHT PRECAUTIONS.????
BY UR JUDGMENTS IT LOOKS LIKE HES THE ONLY MATURE ONE, BUT IF THIS IS SO THEN WHY DOESNT HE USE A CONDOM OR ASK ME TO GET BACK ON THE PILL?? SOME COMMENTS HES BEEN MAKIN REALLY MADE ME BELIEVE HE WANTED A BABY WITH ME!!
I DIDNT WANT U TO SLAG ME OR MY RELATIONSHIP OFF, I ONLY ASKED FOR SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO RAISE THE SUJBECT, THAT WAS ALL!!
ITS EASY TO JUDGE ISNT IT??
2007-12-08 04:13:14 · update #2
You need to tell him how you feel and that you are not taking your pills before pregnancy makes your decision for you.
Give him a chance to change his mind too.
2007-12-07 14:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Not only are you getting yourself into a bad situation you are decieving his trust.
He probably meant that he really didnt want more kids.
Besides that, the best way to bring a child into this world is when it is mutually planned.
What will happen when you get knocked up and he doesnt want the child. Are you willing to take care of this child on your own or perhaps adoption or abortion.
Bringing a child has more to it than a whim of wanting a baby.
Talk to him about it or get on your pill again.
Do the right thing.
2007-12-08 02:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship based on lies is not any relationship at all. that was an immature, childish thing you did - whether or not you forgot to take them last month is irrelevant - you already acted in a very deceptive way to get what you wanted, regardless of your boyfriend's decision.
I don't know what sort of relationship it is anyway - you lied to him from the start, and are unsure as to whether or not he was honest with you? I hope he realises what a mistake he's making.
2007-12-07 22:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
if you tell a web of lies one day you will get stuck and no offence but it looks like your day is coming soon. if he said he didn't want another child then y on earth r u doing this? he is being responsible in sayin this and not takin your bc is an awful way to repay him. you keep doing this your gonna end up pregnant and he's gonna leave u alone, a single parent, and wit ur feelins hurt. for ur sake i really hope ur not pregnant.
2007-12-07 22:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
mmm, not a good way to start a new life! however its done now so just tell him, im not sure you should tell him that your a decietfull mare though, just dont lie to him again! you lied and tricked him into fatherhood so whatever the cosequences you have to face them! good luck, and please grow up!
2007-12-08 03:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by JENNY B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he is being responsible by saying and admitting that he doesnt want any more kids.
Dont take that away from him. Dont take advantage of someone who is being honest.
2007-12-07 22:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
That is really dishonest and immature of you. If you force him into having a child he didn't know he was attempting to conceive in the first place, he may (rightly) leave you. Having children should be a mutual decision - I certainly hope you figure that out soon!
2007-12-07 22:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 2⤋
A selfish women, doing what she wants, for her, without any thought for others, who she professes to love. What a surprise. I wish you well. Terry.
2007-12-07 23:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by terrysains 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
wow you are a bad speller...tell him the truth..you cant hide a pregnancy.
=] good luckity luck
2007-12-07 22:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
what the first guy to comment said.
2007-12-07 22:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋