2007-12-07 13:48:27 · 8 answers · asked by Help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ew...bad boy. have learned no lessons i see.
2007-12-07 13:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by dawn666annapolis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to sugar coat this matter. There's no hemming and hawing. You just come straight out and tell her you have an STD. If you don't want to tell her, then don't date her or anyone else. If the STD is curable, then you need to wait until then before you start dating again. And, if it's not curable, then you need to get involved in support groups in addition to treatments and start getting your affairs in order. Dating isn't everything. You need to get your priorities straight. You need to be worrying about getting well and not worrying about dating at the present time, and you need to take a good, hard, honest look at yourself and see how you can not get an STD and how not to spread it.
2007-12-07 23:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it something treatable, get rid of it before dating her.
If it is herpes or HIV/AIDS, then get to know her awhile first, no sex, of course. If she likes you & gets to love you she may be ok with it.
I've been on the other side of this & am giving this advice despite not liking it done to me. I was mad for having feelings for him then finding out & having to decide what to do. But from your point of view, it's your best chance. If you tell her right off, she will likely run.
2007-12-07 21:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pogo peeps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of this problem first make sure your clean and then ask her out on a date.
2007-12-07 21:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by vanallenbelt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't and you don't date until you take care of the problem.
2007-12-07 21:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be upfront and honest with her. DO NOT just decide not to tell her and be sure she 100% understands. if you are honest with her then maybe things will be okay, but if you don't tell her she will just be mad at you.
2007-12-07 21:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET CURED FIRST . YOU WERE NOT ARM TWISTED RIGHT ? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT GOING ON AS IF ALL IS OK. BE A MAN , NOT JUST A MALE.
2007-12-07 21:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is key...otherwise you are low down.
2007-12-07 21:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋