My husband last year before his accident had gone to the bar with his buddies from work, i didnt mind until he started inviting his ex-fiance too. Well a whole big thing started between me and her cause she was out of his life for 5 years and then decided to come back in after relizing she had made a big mistake of letting him go and he promised me to leave her out of his life forever then he started talking to her again behind my back and I found out again from him makin a separate email account just for her and seeing her alone...well anyway, he hasnt gone to the bar since his accident (10 months ago) and I keep thinking, is she gonna be there, and I dont know how to get that out of my mind. She even has a job right down the road from where we live. How do I get her to leave him alone and get a life? And how do I get him to get over her? Should I worry with him going to the bar and maybe getting things started again with him and his ex? Or should I just see what happens? Help :(
2007-12-07 13:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should worry because he is the kind of guy that would talk behind you back the soulution is to make him get over her you dont need to do anything!it 10 months!it's almost a year!How do you get her to leave you alone take another road!For all you should care is your husband and for get about this ex stuff don't think it her making the problem it you husband!I don't care what you do!but you keep a close eye on him!
2007-12-07 13:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not the ex. Your problem is your husband. Obviously he has not told her not to contact him and that he is attached. He is lying to you and meeting her and talking to her. What else has he done with her? I would not wait and see what happens. This is going to end badly if you do that. If I were you I would tell him that this is no longer going to go on. Let him go to the bar and when he lies and sees her he would be gone. You cannot trust a liar.
2007-12-07 13:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worry if you like. The fact of the matter is if he desires to be with her and she with him, it will end for you. You can't control them. You can warn him, yell at him or threaten to kill him but that will only speed things up. If you love him then you must trust him and if he strays, then you know his love was not real for you. Get over it and move on. But worry? You are better than that. Stress will only cause more problems for you.
Yoda out
2007-12-07 14:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any man or any woman, wants to see some one ells, suppose your relationship has ended.
If any one loves you, you are the only person they want.
There is no excuse, they love you and you are the most important part of their life, if not find some one that will love you.
Keith
2007-12-07 14:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your husband's ex you should worry about, it's your husband. if you dont trust him then i would worry too! esp. if he lied and even got a seperate email just to talk to her. have you talked to him about if he wants to get back with her? if he loves you and cares about you, he will tell her to leave him alone and cut off all communications with her. good luck =]
2007-12-07 13:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you more than once and you're wondering?
How blind can you be?
The problem is not her. There will always be a "her".
The problem is your cheating husband.
2007-12-07 13:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ohno 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yoda's a homoooooo!! lol- yoda out dah dah dah.homo
2007-12-07 14:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋