Am I bisexual?

Question

Lately I've been havin feelings for this girl. This is something totally new to me. I thought it was just because we were close friends(but i realize it wasn't true because I have other gay friends and im not attracted to them). But what made it worse was wen i had a dream about me and the gurl making out. I was so shocked and i didnt know wat to do. So i told one of my best friends that's gay and she told me to tell the girl. So i told her and she told me that she's been feeling the same way since last year. And wanted to know how long i've been feeling her. And honestly it's been a few months. So we started talking and she said she wanted to be on the d.l. cuz she has a gurl(but she gettin ready to break up wit her), and i told her yea cuz i still wanna figure out if i'm really bisexual or if it's jux cuz i'm always around her. What should i do???

P.S. dont respond if u not gon leave something positive and helpful to me. And especially no immature comments. I'm 17 years old and i can make my own decisions i jux really need help wit this...Thanks!!!!!

And oh yea...i do have a boyfriend sorry i forgot to mention that but we've been together for a year and 2 months and he's the best boyfriend u could ever ask for im just attracted to this gurl

Answer 1

I think you should both be sure of how you feel before you start a relationship, otherwise, one or both of you will end up hurt.

It's a bad sign that she wants to get started with you before she has ended her previous relationship. If her girlfriend can't trust her, neither can you.

Answer 2

Well, you're at an age that you CAN make mature decisions on. Now, you DIDN'T say anything about boy friends, so that's just slightly confusing being as your question was about bi-sexuality. I'd say that this young lady and yourself should get to know each other BEFORE getting physical with each other. Plus that, she's getting out of another relationship, so you really don't want to be getting a girl friend who's rebounding after a break-up. And you need to tell her(and your prospective future girl friends too) about your current boy friend(if you have one at the moment that is). And no, there is NOTHING wrong with being bi-sexual. Please though, remember to ALWAYS practice safe sex! Aids last for the rest of your life, and it makes your life a lot shorter too!

Answer 3

Humans are omnisexual. They can fall in love with anything and get satisfaction.
Some place along the path of life we develop preferences. The sad part is that hating something is so dynamically opposed to loving it that sometimes we just cross the line and enjoy something we were taught to hate.
I could write more on this but no one is ready to hear it as every-ones minds are made up already.
Just accept that for what ever reason we can enjoy loving someone of the same sex. With out moral restraints there is nothing wrong with it.
But when there is a belief in the Bible it can cause guilt that draws us back to it.

Answer 4

Okay think of this as a test for yourself. Everyone in my area, at least amongst my friends, has been curious as to bisexuality or lesbianism and so they tried it to see if they felt it was right. Keep in mind a woman is biologically wired to go both ways, though usually they are driven one way or the other, so the only real deciding factor here is whether you think this path feels right or not.

Answer 5

If you have fallen for her,I would say go for it. It you don't feel really good about doing it, then don't. Do whatever your gut tells you to do. The only one true person that can give an answer what should you do, is yourself. You need to listen to your heart. Good luck