Is life really hard?

Question

or is it one's perception of the stituation at hand that makes it hard? Kinda funny and humorous when you think about it. Hmm...

What do you think? Why is it that stituations that one find so hard and struggle with for days, weeks, or even months can be fix within a mere second?

Answer 1

is the glass half full or half empty?

if you see it as half empty,
then you will die of thirst.

if you see it as half full,
then it is time to build a boat.

what ever you put your mind on is multiplied over time.
if you count your blessings,
in the future you will have more blessings to count.

if you worry over possible misfortune,
in the future you will find more misfortune.

your real power is the power to choose,
not to choose and forget,
but to choose, and choose again, and then choose again.
always the same choice must be made.
in every moment.

choose that your "life will be easy".
events may occur that shake your confidence in your choice, but remain firm in your choice of "life will be easy".
and over time your will can prevail over any and all circumstances.

faith means to choose without external validation.

the universe is so large that all possibilities are there just beyond your finger tips.

choose what kind of person you want to be.
choose what kind of world you want to live in.

beware the fear mongers and their talk of limitations, of sacrifice, of doom and gloom. let them live on their petty worlds.

you are free to choose your on world of wondrous delight,
of hope and joy, and abundance.

Answer 2

I think everyone deals with things different. What may feel like a bee sting to one person is a train wreck to another. We get ourselves in twined in our ideas. If we sit back and tune into what each situation is trying to tell us we get the reality of what is actually happening. (this is hard to do)This question reminds me of a time when I racked my brain up and down trying to figure something out. When I least expect it all of a sudden there's a calm that comes over me and everything clicks in that moment. (It's like an acceptance to whats at hand) I try to hang onto whatever i was thinking but it just goes up like smoke.
I think doubts and reasoning are what fill up moments of clarity as soon as you realize there existence. It's human nature. I think the answers are always right there but we righteously reach out further expecting desired results.

Answer 3

Certain aspect of life is hard. Dealing with the anguish of life is an ordeal all in itself, over-coming it is an obstacle that takes time to resolve. The hardest thing in life is to accept the things we cannot change. With that, meaning, one cannot change what has already happened, but one can learn by the challenges that he/she has overcome.

Situations that are a struggle or hard to fix, is because most people procrastinate and put it aside, instead of dealing with it as soon as it comes.

Answer 4

I know its really funny... I laugh at it too coz it seems that when people are so vexed abut some problems but from my point of view they just seem a trifle. I think life is whatever a person takes it as and that is why life is so beautiful and simple.

Answer 5

Why can some tough situations be fixed in seconds? There is no why, some just can. Some can't.

Some are truly hard but can still be resolved, some can't. Being in Guantanamo Bay as a prisoner is truly hard, nobody can deny that.

Answer 6

I believe that the more hopes and ambition you have, the more difficult and stressful life can be. It's sort of like the whole "ignorance is bliss" expression. The happiest people I know are the ones that want the least out of life.

Answer 7

Life is hard and unfair no doubt.

I feel like the wind is always coming in the direction of my route. Never a down wind.

; (

Answer 8

Life is only as hard as you want to make it!

Answer 9

sometimes i think you just get lost in it. after a while you will find your way back

Answer 10

Time fixes all things.