And are there certain ways this pain can be prevented?
2007-12-07 10:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
well, it usually only ''hurts'' a little, but it doesnt hurt so much that you would want to stop, its a bearable feeling..so dont worry. (it ''hurts'' less with a condom cos its lubricated)
2007-12-07 10:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So much depends.....if the hymen is intact or not, if she is wet enough and relaxed enough. If you are concerned about the pain....start masturbating now. That will help stretch things out a little bit. Also, your bf can finger you....same thing, it'll help stretch things out a little. It can hurt if your hymen is intact and you've never masturbated or had anything inside. Even tampons can help stretch things out. I didn't think it hurt all that much, but for a few minutes, it was definitely uncomfortable.
2007-12-07 18:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a girl is too young, her hymen is intact, the boy is eager and clueless so he tries to penetrate her right away - these are all reasons it CAN hurt.
My advice is dont have sex until:
- You have regular Gyno appointments
- Your Gyno confirms your hymen is gone. If not, they can remove it with an office visit
- You are mature enough to buy condoms & lube.
The real trick is to go slow, become aroused so it lubricates and opens on it's own, and the boy uses lube on the condom. (The lube wont absorb into the rubber).
Boy's are clueless. They are ready to dive in with about 45 seconds arousal. Girls need 5,10 sometimes 20 minutes of kissing, fondling and fingering. Go slow.
2007-12-07 18:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How to prevent the pain? Well you can have your bf finger you. If you have a bf and if your old enough.
2007-12-07 18:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you can avoid the pain altogether by using a lot of lubricant.
2007-12-07 18:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by bi.norcalgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the first time it does hurt
and if u have sex with a person u love it does feel good
put if u have sex to somone hopeless that dnt love u
it dont feel good
if i was u i'll just wait ...coz these no rush
2007-12-07 18:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
it really depends, like some people say that it hurt so bad it made them cry and there's some (like me) that didn't think it hurt at all. i just feels like a tiny bit of pressure, nothing major.
2007-12-07 18:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes a little but it is fun.
2007-12-10 16:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by josie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋