2007-12-07 09:07:45 · 17 answers · asked by Lafurniture 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I wish I would have known about my husband's porn addiction...
2007-12-07 09:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by faith 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had known ALOT of things before I got married.....and that is why I tell people to really get to know the person they are going to marry. Marriages are suppose to last forever, not a few years (or less).
If I had known about certain behavioral problems, or certain personality issues I couldn't live with I never would have married him in the first place....but I was young and dumb.
2007-12-07 09:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we were friends for 4 years and dated/lived together for 4 before we ever got married; i thot i knew him so well. if only i had known that the military would change him into a cold, angry person that threw away all dedication to his family and friends for the good of his career. i am trying desperately to get back the man i fell in love with.
i hope i can hang in there, but i guess you just can never completely know a person, nor what to expect in your future when you get married.
2007-12-08 08:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18. There are a lot of things I wish I'd known, but you can't go back.
2007-12-08 04:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by margarita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WISH I HAD BEEN WITH MORE MEN AND NOT MARRIED SO YOUNG
THAT HE WAS LAZY AND UN-HELPING
THAT SEX GETS WORSE
THAT HE HATED MY MOTHER
THAT HE HARDLY EVER SPEAKS
THAT HE WAS BURPING, FARTING, SHITTING ALL DAY LONG CONSTANTLY
THAT HE HARDLY EATS ANYTHING DIFFERENT
THAT HE DOES NOT LIKE GOING OUT
THAT HE GETS ANGRY VERY QUICKLY
THAT HE CAN NOT SCREW A SINGLE BOLT OR DO ANY MAN WORK
THAT HE IS LIKE A BABY AND I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF HIM AND CLEAN AFTER HIM
FOR NOW I AM HANGING IN THERE BECAUSE APPARENTLY THE GOOD THINGS ARE MORE THAN THE BAD ONES BUT IF IT CHANGES MY LIFE IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE.
2007-12-07 09:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That she was mis-representing her true super low sex drive and that the sex would dry up to nothing in no time flat.
It's been the most frustrating existence imaginable.
Had I known I would have *never* gotten married to her.
2007-12-07 10:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not exactly a rose garden, but you cant give up and holler "Divorce" right at the beginning. You have to work through your problems and compromise A LOT.
And yes the sex decreases (this is a woman admitting this haha) but only because we are both busy and tired.
2007-12-07 12:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Katie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes....i wish i would have known how much my husband was gonna change as soon as we said i do...i wish i would have known what a bunch of hypocrites his family was, him included. i wish i would have known sooo many more things than i did.
2007-12-07 09:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my ex-wife was going to cheat on me alot during the course of our marriage.
This is ok though I have found the most wonderful wife in the world now.
2007-12-07 09:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would of wanted to know how much my mil despised me and how much she was jealous of the relationship i had with my own parents... she has and still is trashing me and enjoys bringing my name up to anyone who will listen... I still would of married my husband though as he is nothing like her and i love him for that...
2007-12-07 09:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋