ok, so im not typically one to start any rumors, but this one girl has spread so many about me for the past 2 years and i have done NOTHING to her and she just keeps on spreading them....she has made ppl believe im a drunk, lesbian, whore, etc... when i was only in the 7th grade. it got around to EVERYONE...the local highschool..my sister..family...friends parents..etc..i once lost all my friends becuz of her. idk what her problem is cuz i have done absolutlty nothing to her but im sick of not doing anything about it....so i need to start a rumor about her....what should the rumor b and how do i spread it?
2007-12-07 07:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by adri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you start a rumor about her, you're only stooping to her level and looking just as bad as she looks to you. People eventually find out the lies others tell, as they will find out that this girl was lying about you. Don't be like her..just pretend you don't care and move on..it will make you the bigger person in the end and make her look like the complete idiot!
2007-12-07 07:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't fight fire with fire. This isn't the right way to reliate, she will just keep spreading worse and worse rumors about you in return. Try talking to her, and letting all your friends know how she is spreading rumors, so they will not believe everything they hear. If you catch onto a rumor, start spreading your own word that it is a rumor, and make sure it stays only a rumor. If you start acting like whatever she calls you,then people will keep believing her and not you.
2007-12-07 15:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Maybur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you think 2 wrongs make a right? It doesn't work that way!
Confront the problem head on! If you are going to learn how to resolve certain issues, you have to communicate. Ask the girl straight up why she said all that! Maybe she's just jealous of you! Did you like a boy she liked?
You know how it felt to have a rumor spread about you. Spreading one about her will not solve the problem, that just makes matters worse!
TWO WRONGS DO NOT MAKE A RIGHT!
Don't lower yourself to her standards!
2007-12-07 15:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by onlyme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't spread a rumor about her it will only continue it. What you should do is tell the office Staff about it most school have rules against it. She's most likely jealous of you and it only go's to show how lowly she is for spreading rumors. Don't sink to her level if you haven't spread rumors stay above all of that.
2007-12-07 15:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by person in the midddle of nowhere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you start a rumor about her, your just as bad as she is. If you lost your friends due to some rumors they weren't that good of friends in the first place. Most people start rumors because you have something they can't have and their jealous. I don't think starting a rumor will solve anything.
2007-12-07 15:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by shortcakes_maple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Confront her in the company of others, preferably an adult such as your guidance counselor and find out what her problem is. By doing to her what she's done to you is just stooping down to her level and will just make her more unbalanced and possibly violent. You'll only make things worse if you play her game.
2007-12-07 15:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Victor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you should start any rumors because then you would be acting just like her. you should go up to this girl and ask her why do she have a problem with you. but then you could start a rumor saying everything she said to you
2007-12-07 15:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like this gurl is a seroius b***h i have a rumor 4 u. u can tell ppl that she does porn. now u have 2 tell a person who is big on gossip and loves to b apart of stuff like that then it'll just b a matter of time b4 evry1 finds out. i usually don't give advice on how 2 hurt other ppl but n ur case i can make an exception. hope this helps :)
2007-12-07 15:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Letetsia F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice is dont spread a rumor because its just gonna raise the bar even more. Talk to your friends and family aobut it, there are better people out there for you.
2007-12-07 15:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people were spreading horrible rumors about me too and it went on for months and they wouldnt stop but when i started spreading rumors about them , guess what happened? they stopped... at least for the time being. Wonder why that is.
2007-12-07 15:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by kf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋