when you you ask a question and all people do is point out everythin BUT your question? like how you spell this, that, or if you missed a comma or used to many, or if you didn't use an apostrophe or not?
I could ask something like Is the Sky Bloo and people would be like "it's B.l.u.e.) why not yes, no, or another color?
or even if I asked something serious..
Why are people so hateful?
Does it make them feel better about themelves (and their low self esteems) to nit pick or correct someone?
can anybody plese help me understand this?
2007-12-07 06:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes this does frustrate me, wen people like ur self ask decent questions, I don't get decent replies bk..
I've only bin on here a few weeks n a number of times I see inappropriate answers 2 questions is unreal..
I gather that a few of these get a kick outer knocking down other peoples confidence..
This is supposed 2 b a community that sticks 2gether and help each other not fight all the time...
The people who r really hateful, r sad lonely people who got nothing better 2 do...
Also it's an easier way of getting points just by not answering properly, pointless in my eyes...
I blame the TV programs and game consoles 4 alot of this hatered anyway, because alot of parents chuck their children in front of these just 2 ave a bit of piece n quiet.
By not showing much love or attention I think causes them to b hateful 2wards others wen they get older as they don't know any different, sad really....
Instead of being annoyed wiv them should feel pitty 2wards them....
2007-12-07 07:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but this whole world is frustrating. You will probably think that my answer will not be pertaining to your question but if you go very deep it does. If you want to end all frustration (which is the key point) then you have to know these things-
We are not this material body, IE; Race, color, nationality, Religion, mind, intellect, senses, job, etc. We are all eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. We never die, only this mortal body dies. This material world is not our real home, it is called Maya (illusion) and is temporary and full of misery, only one fourth of the souls come here, and the rest are enjoying blissful eternal loving relationships with our Maker named above. We fell here due to envying Gods position. He made the material world for those who want to try to live separately from Him (Which is impossible because He is actually everywhere). After many lifetimes of trying to be happy in this temporary world one becomes frustrated and board and begins to question their existence. We then seek out real happiness, and when one becomes sincere God reveals how to come back Home. Those who are intelligent, take up the process of self realization (Bhakti Yoga) which begins with the chanting of the Maha Mantra (the great mantra for deliverance from all suffering and illusion), which gives one real peace, happiness and reality. Then at the end of life they can give up all material attachments and fully surrender to God and return to the eternal Kingdom, where there is no more birth, death, old age,disease nor frustration and be eternally happy. for info go to harekrishnatempe.com read The Science of Self Realization by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- Lets end all this frustration once and for all and never come back to the material world again. I am doing what it takes to do that.
2007-12-07 06:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people are just plain mean when they can have anonymity. The people that give you the nit pick answers are trying to make themselves feel better. they must have low self esteem or loss of control in their own personal lives to want to try to make others feel so small.
2007-12-07 06:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People like to point out the wrong things in others in order to make themselves feel important, very immature and frustrating but learn to let it go.
2007-12-07 06:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
really not much to understand people are people and they will do what floats Their boat even if it sinks yours!
it happends to me all the time! i learnt to ignore it!
and not eveyone does it just the spitefull ones!
unless some may really care! but showing that in a hateful way is a waste!
2007-12-07 07:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I pay it no mind.
Recently,I asked a question about pneumonia and this insensitive BOY said that I was a liar and that I didn't have pneumonia.
I don't have to prove myself to him,he's just ignorant.
But hey,what can you do!........welcome to "ciberworld"....lol.
2007-12-07 10:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i very much doubt anyone can help you understand , theres many of us on here who dont understand it , it just happens .
2007-12-07 08:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Fr3dinbed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes very much
2007-12-08 05:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by cutiecathy272 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋