This question is for the guys.(since i want to understand the situation from a guy's point of view)
Have you ever been mean or rude to a girl you like?It can even be knowing that she likes you or used to like you.
2007-12-07 06:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by warm_glossy_girl 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would really like your opinion since the guy i used to like last year (& still do a little bit) has developed a sudden interest in me lately & has been tryng to get my attention.The problem is, the ways he use to do it isn't very nice sometimes.I thought only boys in primary school acted this way with a a girl they like.
We'll both be graduating from school this year & going to universities in different states, which means that it's too late for a relationship anyway.
If you answered yes to my question...did the girl you like do aything to make you change your mind abt being rude to her?(or made you realise that it wasn't the right way of going abt it)
2007-12-07 06:09:43 · update #1
Never.
But also it might depend on personality - I'm not mean or rude to people i hate even, I'm just cold and stay away from them.
But I'd have to say from experience, even most asshole guys are nice to impress a girl they like, and then later on they go back to being assholes...
so I'd say no, if he's mean to you forget it. If he really likes you, he'll realize that thats a stupid strategy and start being nice, or itll go nowhere. You cant possibly take being mean as a sign of liking though haha
2007-12-07 06:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by toothPASTE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been rude to a girl I was pursuing. I let the other idiots do that until she notices I'm different. The guy may have behavioral problems and it probably wont change until he grows up. Guys can like you and still not know how to treat you well - you have to decide if that's someone you want to be with.
2007-12-07 14:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by tshnobodysfool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,
That's a tough one. I'll give you my thoughts.........I think a guy should give/have respect for anyone they like. Don't buy into a false pretense (I am a guy and I know how we are). Be nice to him. Let him know that you can feel his thoughts. And since I'm gay. I "really" know guys, LOL. I have never been rude once. I would call it "contestive" or "challenging" on his part. He just wants to be sure he will have you for him...........alone and for himself.
2007-12-07 14:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋