~ another better-looking lady enters the room in a skimpy dress and all the men ogle her, sometimes at the cost of marginally ignoring you.
~ another confident career-minded and successful lady enters the room and all the men start paying more attention to her comments which are wiser than yours.
~ another lady makes a pass at the guy sitting with you at the dinner table in a restaurant.
Please answer for all three situations. I have a bet to win with my boyfriend.
2007-12-07 06:07:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
jealous and maybe angery
2007-12-07 06:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice question. I'm a man but I always like a little insight into ladies' thinking. Judging from most of the answers, it seems most of you girls feel a bit insecure in your relationships- to the extent that Kate even said that to secure a man's attention you would have to be in the buff. Let me tell you ladies- tho the eyes may travel around apparently scouting for greener grass, the heart really doesn't follow the visual signal except maybe superficially. The man always knows that home is where the heart is.
So, relax girls. Those of you who know how to retain your grip on his b...s, will keep him from straying too far afield.
2007-12-07 15:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by ven_god_ky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one doesn't bother me that much. If a woman dresses in a way that encourages men to ogle her then I usually assume she either has low self esteem or she's compensating for something. I don't like being ogled so I wouldn't feel jealous.
The second one doesn't bother me either. I don't care for being the center of attention and if she was really interesting I'd probably want to listen to her too.
The third one would really tick me off because trying to flirt with my man, is just plain disrespectful to me. I trust my husband but having some woman flirt with while I am there is just rude. Thankfully, my husband usually thinks women who do that, especially when it's one of my friends (it has happened) are just catty b!tches and he ignores them.
2007-12-07 14:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by luckythirteen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Knowing men that is bound to happen! Rather than burn with jealously I would join the men and ogle her!!
2. Well if her comments are wiser than mine then I myself will start paying more attention to her...I am always ready to learn from a better person!!!
3. Well I guess the ball is with the guy sitting with me. Let him react!!!
2007-12-07 14:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
1.& 2.) I wouldn't feel anything, I'm a very confident and secure woman and don't feel threatened by prettier or more intelligent women.
3.) I would probably laugh at her because again, I'm a secure person and I know my husband loves me and is faithful.
If I were a young woman and not so secure I'd probably be quite upset by the last senerio and put her in her place (by letting her know what a disrespectful a@@ she is) no matter how the man with me reacted to her.
2007-12-07 14:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY, I don't fell jealous or angry because, May be the first lady is truly sexy than me, second may be truly intelligent than me and I should not feel jealous of that. I will appreciate.
As far as the guy sitting with me. If a lady makes a pass on him, I feel proud that i am sitting with such a handsome guy that every body makes a pass on him and he is still sitting with me. If he respond to their pass and leave me. I think he doesn't deserve me and move on to get a nice guy who respect me.
2007-12-07 23:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sonu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the first lad must be very confidant and hopefully she is smart because in time her looks will fade but stupid is forever
No body is wiser than I
I would be honored because no matter who makes a pass at my man I know he is going home with me. The love we have is only for each other and many have tried to separate us but no one will succeed except in death and even then our hearts will remain true!
Good luck with your bet!
2007-12-07 14:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
~Hurt or left out, though I wouldn't express it.
~Nothing, I'd listen to her comments and learn from them
~Is the guy just a friend? Friend, I wouldn't care. BF or hubby, I still wouldn't really care so long as I can see that he is still trying to include me. And if she just will not take the hint and is just being totally obnoxious about it, I'll say something to her.
2007-12-07 14:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN THE ATTENTION IS ON ANOTHER WOMAN THAT IS SO DISRESPECTFUL. YOU MAY FEEL LIKE YOU ARE NOTHING AND NOT WORTH NOTHING. YOU INTEND TO FEEL THAT HE WANTS HER AND HE DON'T SEEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT. A MAN ALWAYS CLAIM THAT HE IS JUST LOOKING , BUT TO US, IT IS MORE THAN LOOKING. IF A MAN GIVES BETTER COMMENTS TO THE WOMAN THAN THEY HAD GIVEN YOU, THEY LOOK AT HER TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM YOU, AND MAYBE FEEL THAT SHE IS BETTER AND IS ON A HIGHER LEVEL THAN YOU. THEY MAY ENJOY WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH HER. IF A WOMAN MAKES PASSES AT THE GUY THAT YOU ARE SITTING AT THE TABLE WITH SHE MORE THAN LIKELY WANTS TO BE MORE THAN HIS FRIEND. SHE REALLY DON'T RESPECT HOW YOU FEEL, SHE MAY EVEN THINK THAT SHE IS ON A MUCH HIGHER LEVEL THAN YOU. SHE MAY WANT TO TAKE HIM OUT SOMETIME. SHE HAS NO RESPECT WHAT SO EVER FOR HERSELF OR NO ONE ELSE.
2007-12-07 14:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jwanna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
1) I will just ignore it because i know its a small distraction
2) Don't mind. I would also join to listen if her comments are that much great
3) Don't care. I know my husband, he doesn't surrender for all those passes because he loves only me.
2007-12-07 17:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by A Human 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
) I guess we have to take most of our clothes off to make sure we get all the attention
2) They are blinded by her looks and I know I am smarter
3) Really bad manners - any smart guy I went out with would pay no attention to it
2007-12-07 14:13:01 · answer #11 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋