is it the fact i dont have a girlfriend? it is my hair? what?
2007-12-07 05:55:23 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it must be cause you dress so f'ing hot!
2007-12-07 06:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being I don't know you personally so I will answer this the best I can!
Overall how you present yourself to people can be such an overwhelming factor as to how people judge who and what you are. If you have feminine mannerisms and style, that alone will make others consider you to be gay. If you unknowingly make advances toward guys and unknowingly shun your contact with women that might give off a sense of homosexuality to those you meet.
You have to understand that presentation tells people a lot about who you are and it also gives people an impression as how to respond to your actions.
All I can really say is that you should just keep living your life the way you see fit, you know who you are and your sexual orientation and that is all the really matters.
2007-12-07 12:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by paulaj2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna know y? well here's some reasons
1) u do something fem ...idk ...like like care a little too much abt the way u look
BOOM
ure gay (ppl love to label even if it's wrong)
2) girls like manly muscular men like those perfect handsome princes from the fairy tales (or the jocks)
if u look geeky or weird or awkward ...then they jusy assume no girl will ever be with u and that u might as well turn gay (how sweet of them)so BOOM
they label u as gay
3) if a gay guy keeps saying u r gay is probably because he's really horny and just wants to ***** u or something
or he thinks he has gaydar and instead of admitting that he's WRONG and there is no such thing as gaydar ...he's just wants to confuse u until u said u r gay (even though u r not)
i know its harsh ...but hey the world is a very harsh cruel place
just be yourself ***** rules ***** therories ***** labels ***** society
be yourself and stand up for yourself
dont let them do that to u ...dont let them push u around
2007-12-07 07:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are some classic stereotypes that people use when thinking someone is gay or acts gay. one of them is being metroesxual. gay guys tend to take care of themselves, and dont like it when they smell, have gross teeth ect. also, femininty. if you like shopping, fashion, or anything that girls tend to like, this also makes people think you are gay. maybe its the way you dress, talk, or walk. if you walk swishy, talk in high-pitched tone, or dress with vidrant colors a lot, this makes people think you are gay too.
anyway, its ok to be gay if you are, but if you dont want people to think you are, change the stuff above, and act as manly and tough as possible.
2007-12-07 10:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone making assumptions about another person without first checking facts isn't really anyone to worry about anyway. Who cares what everyone thinks. If you are gay you are gay if not so be it....
2007-12-07 06:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's because you look like Harry Potter all grown up? Just kidding. Actually, chances are your having homosexual men approach you, because they could find that the way you dress, talk, or act is similar to them... it's not like they can psychically know if you are or not, and perhaps other people see that, and they assume? *Shrugs* If so, take it as a compliment, and politely tell them your not... and tell other people who want to make fun of you to f-off, because their probably just closet homosexuals or homophobes themselves.
2007-12-07 06:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by D4rkG0dd3ss0666 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like trying to turn the gay guys into straight ones. So if youre not, it's win-win, right?
2007-12-07 06:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Valkyrie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well are you. Maybe they see something you don't see. If you are str8 and you want to be more masculine, work out and cut your hair short. But why try to be anything other than who you are. Try not to let other people bother you so much.
2007-12-07 06:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Snookles © 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell us more about yourself and we can provide you with better responses. A lot of str8 guys don't have girlfriends. What about your hair?
Shaun
2007-12-07 10:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by shaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know you were gay when we met up in Boise, Idaho at that Super 8. Why would you lie to me?
2007-12-07 06:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Growing up I was a loner and quiet; my parents thought I was gay. They didn't tell me that until after I started dating and had my first serious girlfriend.
2007-12-07 05:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋