my friend is 16 and had sex a couple of days ago it wasnt her fist time just the first time with this boy ... she has recentley noticed that to one side of her vagina is swolen and slightley sore ?
does anybody know what this is.
please help me to find out thank you .
2007-12-07 05:12:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi there ,
Your "friend's boy friend" does not seem to be a reliable friend..tell your "friend" this, okay ?
Get your "friend" to a STD specialist today itself.. It is not worth taking the risk of wasting precious time, thinking that it could be a bruise, due to "rough sexual act", okay ?
Rule out any STD first and do it today itself. Do not delay...
best wishes !
2007-12-07 06:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by suresh k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a start I think your friend is totally irresponsible. What is she thinking. She is still a child in a growing woman's body, but without the intelligence.
Think of the life and the stigma she faces, do you all not learn that sex is not the do all in life. It will be her downfall within her family and her community. This may sound old fashioned, but you are obviously not intelligent enough to know this, as you have not grown up enough.However, you obviously have a worryfor family thoughts, otherwise why does she not ask her mother. She cannot do this, as she knows the consequences.
Well I cannot say I feel sorry for her, as she has made a few guys happy at her own life's expense, but for what. Do you not think of aids or the consequences.
I feel sorry for what is happening in India, as following western ways of free life and sex are not the way forward.
This is not a religious thought, but this is what the way I have seen and heard of girl's lives being ruined over the Internet because a boyfriend wants to share his fun with others for money.
Tell her to go to hospital to get herself checked out, but for all please do not ruin your lives for the 5 minute scoundrels.
By the way have you gals not heard of condoms...
2007-12-07 14:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by kirsun10 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Use some vaginal anti fungal cream or antisceptic cream.I am sure , all girls know this.If you can , please consult a doctor.It may be the sexual act was done every roughly and vigorously by the boy before the girl's vagina was became wet with strong desire to to have the final DO.
It may also be for unclean organ of the boy.
The doctor will understand better.You may use Betadine solution inside the vagina ......3/4 times a day and at night , it is most important.
2007-12-07 13:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost is the importance of the girls's health .
first stop is to have a check up with a doctor / hospital to make sure there is no infection at all of any sort .
if it is not an infection the body will heal itself .
the next stage is for the girl to reconsider her sexual activity as 16 is too young an age to have sex , enjoy youth now and sex can come when more maturity brings better decisions
2007-12-07 15:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must have got hurt due to vigorous sex. TRell her to keep some ice pack. If not subsided, then she should consult a gynac fast.
2007-12-08 05:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be so many things. STD, infection, or just a bruise from rough/unprepared sex.
2007-12-07 13:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by AliGirrrrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be pretty close friends if she's discussing her vagina with you. Tell your friend she needs to see a doctor and get tested for STDs.
2007-12-07 13:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
no but can't she go to a docter? thay might know what it is.(and can you help me i am makalia eagle and i need halp can you help me to?)p.s.you can reach me at makaliaeagle@yahoo.com
2007-12-07 17:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by TIMBANA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either he humped her brains out or she has a STD. I would get ckecked out if I were her.
2007-12-07 13:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think bigger "pole" in smaller "hole" had happend........
2007-12-07 15:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by shango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋