My girlfriend and I will probably make love for the first time this weekend, I'm not a virgin but she is. Any ladies got any tips to make it really special? Also would it best for me to go on top or her?
2007-12-07 04:55:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Spend agggges on foreplay touching each other and stuff. Go really really really slowly, in entering and thrusting, especially when entering her. Maybe stop half way whilst inside her for a bit to ask "you ok?". It will probably be best for you to go on top, than maybe after wards/after a while have her on top for a bit so she can control it. I know when that was me it hurt like hell (even though he was loving and gentle) l and if i was on top he wouldn't get in because i was a bit of a wimp lol. Kiss her while doing it too.
2007-12-07 06:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Re-read "Heartbreak"'s answer. Add condoms and lube.
I also strongly recommend the old gentlemens rule: Ladies first. You should really try to give her pleasure before taking your own. This will get you invited back...
Yes - you should be on top. You might want to stand next to the bed with her just hanging over the edge a bit with a pillow under her hips. This way you have your hands free to fondle, apply lube and you can take several minutes to get her used to you. Then you can lean forward and stare into her eyes when things come to a finish.
2007-12-07 19:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Grumpy Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well remember your first time, was that good, romantic how you wanted it?? You know how that felt so you will know how she will feel in that sense.
ASK HER, if you are too shy then you shold not take her virginity. make sure you both know that this is her virginity, she cant get it back!! make it special. Be slow, on top is a god idea, but let her take the lead if she wants to.
Make sure you will be undisturbed!! have precautions!! talk about the condoms, the pill she's taking etc, make each other feel comfortable and safe. Make sure you are both warmed up first ( i know you know what i mean) it may hurt her so she needs to feel comfortable. make sure you are not just having sex with her just to take her virginity.
Good luck
2007-12-07 17:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Info team 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask Her!!! She may be shy about it but only she can tell you what would make the occasion really lovely and special to her.
And by the way - listen to the womens answers on here if any - not the blokes. Not being disrespectful but only a woman can see it from a womans point of view.
2007-12-07 13:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by karla 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she is a virgin I think you should go on top because most likely she wont know what she is doing.
2007-12-07 13:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lucky bastard take it nice and slow and enjoy every moment, I love the on the side position her leg straight and the other leg cranked up so I can play with her bits, and also watch here same time, plus you can get really tight, tight in
2007-12-07 13:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by aleclove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make it just where you two will be alone. and put roses all ever where. and put candles out to. and if you go on top of her rembember go easy on her, and dont hurt her. lol. hope you have a great time.
2007-12-07 13:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how special she is to you and take your time with her and be gentle lots of kisses and cuddles good luck
2007-12-07 14:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by shaza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Woman who is a virgin on her wedding night is very special
leave her be until you are married
2007-12-07 13:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
You will be her first even if you botch it up she will remember you. also go with whatever feels better for her
2007-12-07 13:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋