Poll: Do you feel that you are awesome enough to add anyone you feel like adding, without emailing them first?

Question

Sometimes I do. Am I wrong for feeling that way?

Dang it, I forgot to use "pulse."

Answer 1

OMG Margo is such a liar. I never got any welcome wagon. She walked right up to me, poured her drink in my purse, and said suck it - you owe me best answer.
And no, do whatever you want.

Answer 2

You like it better on "pulse" ?. then by all means use it! sometimes i like pulse but when i get really frisky i use gonnamakeyascream on high.. oh wait.. you're asking about adding and emailing...... my bad!

To the question at hand, speaking of which..sometimes i do just use my han.... oh wait.. then i might add you without emailing ya .. if i felt awesome enough! fair enough?

Anyways, I will come back and answer this after i go feel myself and see exactly how awesome I really do feel.. okies? If I feel awesome enough, I'll add you without emailing you! fair enough?

amen, let's eat (or do other things)

Answer 3

I used to, then I discovered many things.
You may unintentionally add a spy to one's network without discovering who they are.
It's just as easy to add someone who may not like you, and turn around and be blocked.
Finally, unless I am adding someone who has been previously suspended, I feel a courtesy note to that new contact is in order, stating some admiration or something you have in common so as too be on a decent ground to even HAVE that person as a contact.
I, like so many others, have stated CLEARLY in my 'about me' that I do NOT wish to be added without some introduction.
The climate has changed on P&S with so many reporter trolls determined to cause suspensions of respectable users that such protocols are a necessity.

Answer 4

I sometimes do, too. Especially if I and the person I want to add have been answering the same questions for the past couple of weeks.

I mean if I read his/her answers and I think she/he is cool, wouldn't that be true the other way around?

Alas, no. I did this with a user and she blocked me. Oh well, such is life!

Answer 5

With all the trolls that are out and about and all the accounts that get reported I like to be respectful and ask permission before just randomly adding people. I like for them to know that I am not dangerous LOL

Answer 6

i don't likely strategies too plenty, i think of that possibly they're including me for a similar reason that i'm including them... i could think of that they ask exciting questions or furnish effective perception into something. some human beings supply reliable suggestion it somewhat is typically useful to me or have asked a question and that i upload them so as that i will see if there is the rest that they might ask interior the destiny that i could desire to study.

Answer 7

I believe we have had this discussion before it has nothing to do with awesomosity, it is common courtesy to email before you add. I think it makes me an even awesomer user because I always email and introduce myself. I also don't delete all my contacts every week then beg them to take me back.

Answer 8

I add them, but then I send an email (assuming they allow emails) letting them know I added them. Kinda makes me a little peeved when they don't respond, though.

Answer 9

No, you are not wrong for feeling that way. I only add people that are my good friends, so they would be upset if I did not just assume they would want to be on my list.

Answer 10

I think I am, I'm not a stalker or a trouble starter, so I don't see a problem with adding someone that made me laugh on more than one occasion.

Answer 11

I only email if it specifies in their profile. Maybe when I'm level 5 I'll throw that rule out the window.