i have 3 children already , iwas on birth controll ,when i got pregnant so this shouldn't be happen . i cant aford anymore kids . i just got layed of and can't find work here . so i can evough feed the kids i have so i need to get rit of the one comming
2007-12-07 03:20:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just call your family doctor or OB for a referral. Pretty sure most abortions are done in the hospital here.
And amosunknown, we may have social healthcare here but in many cases Welfare pays even less here and is even harder to get -particularly in the Atlantic Provinces. Despite what Americans seem to believe Canada is NOT a socialist country we do not have cradle-to-grave support.
2007-12-07 03:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You shouldn't be so selfish as to say you *need* to get rid of it. If you don't want the baby give it to someone who does. Adoption is always better. There are couples on waiting lists for newborns that have been waiting for years. You can give someone what they want. And things will be better. I don't know how Canada works but in USA the gov't really helps with pregnant women who can't afford healthcare/food and other needs. Especially if they already have kids they can get even more help. You should look into these things.
2007-12-07 11:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Parker Bailey born 4/1/09 9lb 1o 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Adoption is the way to go in this situation. There are lots of couples who cannot have any kids and would be willing to pay for your health care and needs while you are pregnant and then adopt your baby. Give this some serious thought!! You will be doing a very good thing, creating a new life and a new family. You are lucky to be able to do that!
Abortion is not needed, ever, unless your life is at stake.
Good wishes to you!!
2007-12-07 11:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by absent farmer 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Alright no excuses here, abortion is never an option. If you don't want to be preg don't have sex, it can happen anytime you have sex. Keep it and love it. If you truly can't afford it give it up for adoption. Don't kill you child please, that is not the answer to this question. I can't imagine someone asking me who many kids I have and having to say "I have three because I killed the fourth one"!!! Don't do it, I'm begging you here. Just don't.
Follow up for EMBEE comment, there is no guarantee of what you will pass to your children. And my youngest is a childhood cancer survivor-I have spent more than $100,000 getting her well. You shouldn't have an abortion because of money issues. You wuldn't kill your children that are outside of your body why whould you kill the one in your body?
2007-12-07 11:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by childhoodcancercure 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you thought of putting the baby up for adoption? I mean, why do people always just think abortion is the only option? I think killing babies is awful. They don't have a choice in the matter. How about getting fixed if you don't want anymore children, it's the best method of birth control for someone like you.
2007-12-07 11:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by vgleason_102301 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Wow I can understand your situation but i can't believe you can say it so bluntly .. There are so many people who would love to have a baby in this world! People who will be great parents that just can't have baby's on there own and derserve to have your beautiful little being! Check your options before you go aborting.. You where on birth control and when you get put on it they tell you there is always a chance of getting pregnant and you should use other methods to protect yourself this is not the babies fault and this baby deserves a chance there are people who will help you ... please please please do not abort!!
2007-12-07 11:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Janna 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you have to do what you have to do.
The pro-lifers aren't going to pay your bills or feel the pain of
giving up a full-term child.
Get to the states if canada has no women's clinics.
We have Family Planning and Planned Parenthood- You
may be able to look them up online.
I went through what you're dealing with; drs are sympathetic
& wonderful, and respectful, which pro-lifers are NOT-
They held horrible signs up to me and screamed at me
on my way into the burbank, california Planned Parenthood.
Let me tell you, I'm not about to pass my mental health
issues onto another being; I spent the first 30 years of my life
wanting to die.
So hang in, try these places (cost is arranged by ability to pay) and understand that pro-lifers have no right to make
intimate decisions for you.
God Bless, Honey. I hope everything works out well for you.
2007-12-07 11:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi B 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What right do you have to kill something God sent you.. So you can't afford the baby, so your going to let some idiot stick poison in you to kill your baby.. Sorry to sound harsh, but your question is harsh.. If you don't want the baby Give It UP For Adoption!! Please don't kill the baby it did'nt ask to be here and he or she could have a loving home.. Its not your choice to kill a baby Remember that..
2007-12-07 12:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I live in Canada ( ontario) and dont try to tell me there is no support. It doesnt matter what province you are in there is help out there. Think of the ppl in the states who dont have it as easy as we do. You have Free medical, you have welfare out there, there are alot of programs to help you.
2007-12-07 12:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by baby3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in Canada so you have a health card and don't have to pay for pre-natal care or birth. Give your baby up for adoption, don't kill it.
Abortion = Murder, no exceptions
2007-12-07 11:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutiej60 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋