im pregnant! eeeekkkkk! this pregancy is not planned, I have my hands full with two already. My husband thinks its great but tell you the truth Im pissed! Can somebody tell me why this is a good thing cuz really i feel nothing rihgt now but OMGOD WHAT AM I GONNA DO-my youngest is just about 2 and i hate hate hate being pregnant. I feel so fat and sluggish the whole time and it was so painful the last time. i was soooooo tired. FnA man, i dont really want another baby:(
Cheer me up people, please!!!!!!!!!
Somebody please change my mind
2007-12-07 03:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I felt the same way i am settled with 3 2 are at school and i only have the 2.4 yr old but i am noe 23 weeks pregnant i am going to have 4 kids 2 at school and 2 at home i feel your pain. But children are so worth it their little smiles when they say i love you mummy or when you help them with their homework and they do well. You are growing a little person its the best thing and the worst but you adapt.
2007-12-07 03:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by sexiebum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been wanting a baby for 2 years, now. I get that you already have two and feel like you've "done your share"... But what's done is done and try to look at it on the bright side. When you see that little baby's face, you're gonna be grateful fate acted this way. Plus I come from a family of 3 and I think it's a great number of children. You feel sluggish and fat, while pregnant? To me, a pregnant woman is SO beautiful. I get so envious ;)
Think of the fun you're gonna have finding this baby clothes and decorationg the nursery and all ... Plus, you already have everything you need, so it won'T be that expensive. Every pregnancy is different and this one might (but might not) hurt less. Why don't you ask your husband why he is so excited, he probably can help you --he knows your whole circomstances!
2007-12-07 11:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by Fannie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had four kids, the first three were very close together. The third was the hardest for me, because, just like you, I had two others and the youngest was only two.
But then Mallory was born. I adjusted. I was so experienced by then it was not as difficult as I had thought. The other two loved the new baby and helped by bringing diapers. All are grown now, and Mallory is 25. Funny when I think how upset I was to be pregnant all those years ago, and then think how much I love her now!!
It will be OK. Really, it will.
2007-12-07 11:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by leysarob 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its whatever you want it to be. We cant change your mind. You have to decide its a good thing.
Honestly, pregnancy is a bittch and I hate it, but its worth it for the end result. And truthfully its only as bad as you make it. The more active you are, the better you care for yourself, and the more you make it a point not to focus on the misery of it the better it can be.
I've know plenty of women who had horrible pregnancies with all sorts of pain and complications and they simply decided they would to it different the next time- despite how it SHOULD have been or COULD have been, their next pregnancies were awesome.
But they decided that it would be.
You love babies, or you wouldnt have two already. And they're not that hard NOT to make, so if you REALLY didnt want another baby you would have done something more serious to avoid it.
I think deep down you're scared about it, but you're going to get over it.
2007-12-07 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, I feel your pain honey, BUT the idea will grow on you and before you know it, you'll be excited about this new life! I became pregnant with #4 while on BC (NuvaRing) and found out the day I went in to have a tubal!! Talk about shock..we thought we were completely done, but you know what-God had other plans and now I couldn't be more excited about this new addition to our family :)
This pregnancy my be your best yet-you never know, they're all different! Just give yourself time to adjust to this news. This baby will no doubt be a blessing to your and your family. Good Luck!
2007-12-07 11:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by happyfacemommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you on BC/using condoms? If you hate being pregnant so bad you should be using both OR one of you should have gotten fixed. I'm not trying to be rude or mean but you had the fun of making it so be responsible and realize for 9 months you can be about someone else and not yourself. Do you not love your other two children? Don't you look at them and just love them to pieces? If you give this baby a chance you'll love it just as much as you love the others.
2007-12-07 11:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Piparis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i've always heard that going from 2 to 3 is a lot easier then going from 1 to 2, so that might help. hopefully you'll get use the idea, wait till you go for that ultrasound and see that little peanut on the screen!
2007-12-07 11:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by MK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a beautiful thing. You can watch something that you made grow up and it will have your other child to help it.
and it will help the other child learn Gentle-ness, and patience. you may feel fat now... but its worth it in the end.
=]
2007-12-07 11:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by xSkanksterx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how wonderful it is that your children will have another brother or sister to love and play with. Siblings are a wonderful thing for kids to have.
2007-12-07 11:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres nothing u can do now....i know ur not gonna give up ur baby because u feel fat when pregnant
2007-12-07 11:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lils 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋