Straight Men: does it boost your confidence when another man hits on you?

Question

Or does it make you scared.


Ladies you can answer too.

Lol Men are so silly :)

Answer 1

no it gives me the creeps

Answer 2

It depends on how the hit is done. If its done by a drunk then no, if done by someone who you know finds you attractive then yes. I think we all need that little boost from time to time. It's healthy. There is far too much hatered in the world these days, we have forgotten how to be nice to each other. Go on make someones day and make them feel special.

Answer 3

I usually feel like at least I am doing something right if a gay man hits on me. I must have had the right clothes or the right look that day. Whatever. I am not gay, but you could sure make your girlfriend or wife jealous by saying, "Honey, at least gay guys want to f*ck me". If a gay guy hits on you, especially in front of your girl, it drives women crazy, and it usually gets you laid real good that night.

Answer 4

I wouldn't say it boosts my confidence but it definitely doesn't hurt it. But I would have to say that I am a fairly confident individual as it is.

Definitely not scared, I know I am straight and "the gay" wont spread onto me.

Answer 5

before everything, this is totally achievable for a in the present day guy to love yet another guy, yet to no longer be IN love with him. 2d: are you asking this to your chum or for your self? there is not any longer something incorrect in any respect with 2 adult males being terrific pals who're intimately close, and that i do no longer recommend in a sexual way. 2 pals who love one yet another and are not nervous of asserting so is a thought it fairly is come an prolonged way. and because some human beings nonetheless think of that purely gay adult males are the adult males no longer afraid to instruct their emotions, there remains an prolonged thank you to bypass. Having a pal who loves you, cares for you, would lay down his life for you - it fairly is actual friendship, and additionally you are able to cherish that with all your heart. it fairly is a few thing some human beings won't in any respect have of their lifetimes, or maybe worse - you won't have it with the guy who's meant to sense that way approximately you, no rely in case you're married to them or no longer. So except the chum is telling you he loves you as he's ripping your outfits off and additionally you're falling into mattress at the same time, then NO, it is not "gay."

Answer 6

It depends how far they go. It can be offensive if its one of the more younger flamer guys who are just out to make a statement and make people feel uncomfortable. But if it's a conservative man, then id just be nice about it and tell him my preference. I guess you could take it as flattering, but in a weird way. Only happened to me once and didnt really affect me.

Answer 7

I know if a nother man hit on my boyfriend her would probably freak out!! But if another woman hit me me I would take it as a compliment but tell her that I was straight. =0)

Answer 8

yes it does, you could also take compliments for the same sex.

but its more kind of a weird way and ask yourself, why am i attracting men? I would prefer women hitting on me thank you ^ ^

Answer 9

No, it kind of just creeps me out.



It's the same feeling as if a really ugly chick started laying it on thick.

Answer 10

haha i love this question.
it should be flattering to the open minded. to the not so, being thought that you were gay by a person could be scary. if you were so insecure.

it could also depend on how hot the guy\girl is.
haha. good question, i like it.

Answer 11

You got it made if both sex or hitting on you.Gays like cute boys and women like cute boys and they both want the same thing.So what is the problem?