I read that there are 'no questions asked' places young mothers can abandon their babies, so they'll stop stopping up the toilets at prom. Where are these safety zones? Because my parents are paying way too much attention to my little brother.
2007-12-07 02:17:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Nice. Your parents should be very proud.
2007-12-07 02:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you really should realize that new/younger siblings will for some time get the SAME amount of attention that you recieved when you were small. You don't remember because the focus was on YOU by you. Sounds like you still are!!Give you're little brother a break and realize that one day, you will be doing the same thing with your child/children.
If you feel like you aren't getting enough "attention", find a way to let your parents know without sounding like your complaining. Just let them know that you miss time with them and give examples of QUALITY times that you miss. Something like taking a bike ride, playing a card game or board game...NOT shopping or spending money on you.
Remember, you are not the only child in the family anymore, he needs his parents too and depending on his age, he may need them more than you at this time. Just as you did.
2007-12-07 02:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by JaeDEE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey, but the 'No questions asked' only apply to newborns that are under 3 days old. If the baby is examined and found to be older than 3 days old, the authorities will actively pursue the mother for various criminal charges.
And, because I think everyone deserves an answer, the safe places are any police station, fire station, church, hospital, birth center, doctors office... almost any official government/medical establishment.
But, you should love your little brother! If this is honestly bothering you, you should talk to your parents about it. I'm sure they don't realize what they are doing!!
2007-12-07 03:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amber S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sibling rivalry much? Facetious much? If you were to take your brother to a safe place without your parents' authorization, you would be in major legal trouble.
Do a search for "sibling "rivalry" and you might find some good, helpful sites.
I cannot identify as to what you are going through, as I'm the youngest in my family. However, being a mother, I do know from personal experience that your brother is fully dependent on your parents for everything, especially your mother if she is exclusively breastfeeding and not pumping.
You would be much better off talking with your parents or another trusted adult, i.e., a teacher, friend of family, pastor, etc.
2007-12-07 02:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Vegan_Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is an awful question. Suck it up. Realize that the more attention they pay to him the more they'll get off of your back. If it bothers you so much, then tell them that you miss time with them. Babies take a lot of time. It's not necessarily that they want to spend all their attention on him, it's that they have to because babies are helpless. You can help them by cleaning up after yourself, being responsible, etc. Show them how grown up you can be.
2007-12-07 02:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsydayne 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Selfish........... You should be nice to your baby brother. It is natural that you are jealous. Babies need more attention, love and careness. However you don't really need attention. Later in life, you will grow to hate your brother, and love him sometimes. My brother is younger than me and he is sometimes annoying. Your parents still love you. It is natural! When my bro was like young I was like around 2 years old and I was jealous because my parents pay too much attention to him than me so I pinched him. I was evil. I still am evil & nasty to my bro because he is so annoying. Sometimes he can be fun. When your brother gets older you will love him.
Also Conniesmummy how can that person be 2 years old when they wrote this? They are probably 8 or 10 years old. 2 years old can't write. And talk much.
2007-12-08 22:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of your self! Quit being so selfish little girl! Babies need lots of attention because they don't know how to do things them self! I can't believe there are little girls out there that are so rotten they would say such a thing and if you are over the age of 6 you should know better which I'm sure you are since you are on line typing! Ugh!
2007-12-07 02:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by #2♥onTheWay 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so selfish. I am sure your parents paid alot of attention to you when you were a baby. Grow up abit girl and stop being so jealous. How old are you, 2?
2007-12-07 05:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by connies mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your own life. I'm sure they paid a lot of attention to you when you were his age - probably more!
Hang with friends, read a book, play online, ride a bike, go to the library...
2007-12-07 02:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by doug4jets 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats funny but not a wise decision they will onlly be more mad at you and baby him if you took him somewhere... if thats what you meant.
best thing for you to do is talk to your parents.let them know how you are feeling, chances are they dont know and no parent purposely favors one kid. he must be the baby and thats why he gets more attention. least they are off your back!!! you will enjoy that sometimes
2007-12-07 02:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's intense. Normally I have a pretty twisted sense of humor too, but maybe the child growing inside me has me all messed up. Not funny.
2007-12-07 02:25:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋