I have been teased around by a married woman.....for her own purposes , I think.
And I am giving up hope on "love". I think everyone is after their own "aim".
How do you think different, and why??
2007-12-07 01:58:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
All relationships, whether platonic or romantic, come down to control. Who has it and the constant struggle for it. This can seem like a form of selfishness. I only got married when I realized that what I was searching for was not a lover, but the woman who would be the best mother for my children, regardless of physical attractivenss, and one that didn't care about money. I think I subconsciouly stayed broke for most of my life so that when I met a woman, I knew she loved me for me and not what I have in my pocket. And money is more important to women nowadays than ever before. If you are not in this space at the current time, I recommend you forget looking for it. It is what it is. Let it happen, the almighty will provide eventually. Oh yea, being with a married woman is one of the top ten no no's.
2007-12-07 02:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be right but I think you're just feeling a bit bitter and hurt at the moment. You can try and give up hope on love but it does have the habit of finding you again. Not everyone is after their own though, some people aren't completely selfish.
2007-12-07 02:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Only visiting 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean someone on here, then you are probably right. It's a great place for people to hide in the shadows and cast a net to see what they can catch.
Playing with people's emotions is really wrong, and whoever it was shouldn't have done that. It was most likely a game or an ego boost to them, they probably didn't even consider that it would be painful to you.
Sorry you had to go through that. There are a lot of decent people around, so don't let her put you off looking. She has actually done you a favor by revealing herself :o)
2007-12-07 02:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in their own way is a little selfish, from birth we want food attention and nourishment so everyone has the ability to be a little selfish in their own way. However I don think this helps your problem You should probably not look in to the married couples as they are already taken. But look for something more realistic. Like Single. Often being a subject of affairs is not the way to win a heart, you add drama and romance to someone else's marriage.
Start by looking for someone Single.
2007-12-07 02:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Katrina Vladden 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
*If* you have observed "teasing"/flirting then how is not reaction yours also? Wouldn't it make more sense to call a tinkle and a pressurized stream of water both looking to put out some sort of fire? But then there is always hope where human beings that are married have only friends outside their marriage and those that aren't married to their friends also have the option of respecting friendship and marriage also. If the woman is available you would not experience "teasing" and neither would she. See, there's always hope when it comes to true love.
2007-12-07 02:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most people are selfish because of the whole if I dont take care of myself no one else will.
BUT- I think that there are A LOT of good hearted people out there that do so much for other people. I have to say that when I met my hubby, I was a selfish B*tch, but he should me how to care about other people and to put others first.
Dont give up because you dont want to be selfish and take away that chance from the girl that WILL make you happy.
Good luck finding happiness!!!
2007-12-07 02:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by **Lynn** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you get older, you will find people are selfish. Some with intention, others without. This is the way of life. It is called self preservation. However, when it is done with intention to hurt, they will pay the consequences one way or the other.
You just try to do the right thing. Remember love yourself first.
It is great advise, I had to learn this the long hard way.
2007-12-07 02:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by clever girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think i agree to the fact that most ppl are selfish... but there are the remaining 20% who are nice... Such ppl will come around, i promise... U just need to wait for them!!! And about "love"... it'll come to u when its supposed to. May be u chose the wrong ppl, may be God has planned out a better life for u for which u'll have to wait, may be he wants u to learn how to be patient... U'll always find ppl who'll mock, but like me, u need to choose to avoid them...Take it easy... I've learnt in life that if u keep looking for happiness, it doesnt come to u..if u consider whatever's happening as happiness, ur newfound happiness will be much more pleasant...its like a butterfly, if u run after it, it'll keep on flying away...if u remain calm and patient, it'll come and sit on ur hand when u least expect it to... All a mind game... Its upto u to consider urself fortunate or unfortunate... Cheers
2007-12-07 02:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think yeah, certain people are indeed getting very selfish.. I'm sorry to hear that.. Why don't you find a different woman? Best wishes, dude. Have a nice day!
2007-12-07 02:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by XbabynovaX 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not most people but a good portion. Every one is different! Sounds like your depressed because of one woman! Their are plenty of better fishys in the sea! Go get your self one! Cheer up- Its all good!
2007-12-07 02:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jolene S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋