I'm always so hard on myself.. I need some help.?

Question

I have a really low self-steem.
I'm so hard on my self.
but i cant help it..
the littlest things bring me down.

what should i do to atleast
hide my low self-steem

Answer 1

learn from your mistakes...and try not to repeat them....dont worry too much if you fail....your only human and there is always tomorow, also look for your hidden talents everybody has them.....and being kind to others can also make you feel good about your self, and they will notice and thank you for it most times and if they dont you know you have done something nice for someone else.

Answer 2

Why do the littlest things bring you down? Because you're worried about what other people might think, or say? Screw 'em, honey, they're not you! At the end of the day, it's what YOU think about YOU that's all that matters...sure, other people are important, but you gotta remember, nobody's perfect, and, who knows, when you get right down to the nitty gritty, you just might be a little more perfect than most!

Why be hard on yourself? Who are you trying to please, or impress? Listen: my old man was a total ******' perfectionist; I could do no right in his eyes...after years of wasting a lot of time and energy trying to live up to unrealistic expectations, I just said to hell with it, good is good enough...I'm the one doing what I'm doing, therefore I'm the only one I have to answer to, you know?

Bottom line: if you're a good, intelligent person -and DEEP DOWN you KNOW that you are- that's what really matters. I know it's an old cliche, but it's true: believe in yourself and you can do anything. And, for what it's worth, yourself is the only thing you really can believe in.

Answer 3

fake it ! act like you have the best self esteem and your the best human in the world sooner or later some of it will rub off!
also look at the good things not the bad things!
www.coping.org helped me with my selfesteem and confidence!