Dream about my mother?

Question

Here my dream My mother was dead and in her casket she was very beautiful and young . I put some pink lipstick on her lips I applied it perfectly and I started crying I was crying so much that it woke me up O K In real life my mother died 35 yrs ago at the age of 62 and I was 32 yrs when she died There was no unresolved issues between her and me at her death OH yea maybe this detail is important In my dream she was the same age as when she die and I was the same age when she died

Answer 1

i think that you may not have greaved her death the right way and or death is knocking at your door and the mind is trying to reason with its self

Answer 2

This may be partially a "wish fullfillment" type dream, bred out of a desire to see your mother again. Just because there was no unresolved issue with your mother before she died, are you sure that's the same after she died? What I mean by that is this: It's difficult to get over the loss of a loved one. One of the stages of grief is anger. We have unfocused anger that the person we love is no longer around. Sometimes people feel guilty about that anger, and then internalize those feelings.

It could also be that you are just still sad that the woman who raised and loved you, who you thought would be there forever, is not there anymore. Although you can rationalize it as death being a part of life, it doesn’t mean that you will ever truly get over the fact that you love her, and she is gone.

Really, our dreams are incredibly random. They can call upon any memory or sensation that's part of your brain's repetoir. But because the brain works in such incredible ways, the memories and sensations can still bring up powerful emotions.