There is a woman that lives in my street who hates me because her boyfriend has a staring problem - she makes horrible little comments when I walk past (she lives at the end of the street and I have to pass her house to get out of the street) She goes to my gym and I can hear her telling her friends that she thinks something is going on between me and her husband which is most definately not! What should I do? I know violence never solved anything but it takes everything in my power to to smack her square in the mouth. I've told her once before that there was nothing going on but she just smirked and walked away, I don't even speak to her boyfriend - It's getting to the point where I can't ignore her anymore. I mean, I visit the gym 4 times a week and she's always there, discussing it with her friends loudly so I can tell she's really bothered about this. What should you do?
2007-12-06 22:56:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sorry if this is in the wrong category - I didn't know where to put it!
2007-12-06 22:57:13 · update #1
Never let anyone push you to the point of violence. In order to deal with the immature lady, the next time she say anything about that in the gym just say out loud so she and her friend can hear, if you look as good as you do then your boyfriend would have the need to stare at you and day dream he was with me (meaning yourself) whether than with you (meaning the other lady) and all the hard work in the gym and plastic surgery in the world will never help you (meaning the jealous lady) look this good (meaning you). Also stay that you (meaning yourself ) have better taste in men and that you will never lower yourself to with someone that settle for less than perfection and that men know class when they see it. Then walk away slowly with a big smile on your face feeling good about yourself; because you call her out on her imperfection ways and jealousy.
2007-12-07 00:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Musicman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound like cack advice but I think its the best I could give. Ignore her & stay away from her fella. You not gonna be able say anything to her that will proove your innocence and chances are she says similiar things about other women. The least you could do is try not to make her paranoia any worse. If you have alread tryed to reason with her then you have tryed all you can. Unfortunately you gonna just have to ride the storm If your friends are worth their salt then they aren't going to listen to her anyway so don't worry!
2007-12-07 07:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I would do...Walk right up to her door and knock..make sure she is home w/ hubby/boyfriend..take your best friend..be very serious with her and tell her the truth. Let her know how you feel and that you think it is imature of her to go behind your back and talk about you. Tell her you don't appreciate her spreading rumors about you that are not true. Assure her you have no interest in her man. Tell her that you can't allow this talk to continue. Be very nice about it tho. Look her right in the eye and say I want this to end now!! If whe says he stares at you than tell her that maybe she needs to be talking with him instead of about you. That you have no interest in him at all!! Thank her to please stop and say your goodbyes!! oh if he really is staring at you..tell him that you would appreciate it if he would stop as it is only causing problems and than tell him you have no interest in him!
2007-12-07 07:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by sash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when i heard her saying it infront of her friends i would nicely walk over and say, honey i dont know where your getting this from but theres nothing going on, i have a boyfriend.....make her feel stupid in front of her friends and she will stop, shes just jealous of you probably because your prettier than her and shes afraid you could take her guy...hope it works out!
2007-12-07 07:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aoife is right. Make her feel really stupid in front of everyone. You will feel so much better after for sticking up for yourself. She has no right to make you look like a slag, who does she think she is?? Don't hit her as she'll probably call the old bill and have you nicked, she sounds like an immature little dumb-*** who needs to get her head out of her ****!!
2007-12-07 07:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously jealous of you for some reason,and using her failing relationship as a basis to confront you with it,clearly you have no business being involved with her illusions,you might just remind her that her own insecurities are likely the reason for her low self esteem & that does not involve you in any way...if anything it will prove your intelligence to her and that is something she would never compete with!
2007-12-07 07:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by legendary~cool 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Next time you over hear her talking to her friends, just march right up to her and explain that there is no way her husband could even get someone as beautiful, perfect and intelligent as you, and that if she is worried that her husband is going to stray then she had better do something about herself to make sure that he remains interested in her.
2007-12-07 07:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Orphelia 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
don't let her insecurities bother you. but what you could do is next time shes at the gym gossipping to her friends, go over to her and have it out with her, make her look the fool in front of her friends.
2007-12-07 07:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the good old smack in the mouth is the only option.
2007-12-07 07:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I liked nay nay's answer but for me....well I am more apt to tell her "if I wanted your husband/boyfriend he would be on his back" but that is just me. lol. I would either ignore her or wait until you see the two of them and speak your mind then. Good luck.
2007-12-07 07:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋