my bf always pulls out i don't like CONDOMS so he never wears a condom...he's always pulling out he never forgets why!!!no matter what i tell him to finished inside me but he always tells me if im sure..i tell him i am and he say's what if \Ucome out pregnant and we don't still live together...he's scared but i can't understand why i don't come out pregnant? They say that's not always effective it's been almost about 4 years i really need help if sperm comes out when were doing it of COURSE why it's effective for us when am i going to come out pregnant i mean it's not that i want to get pregnant like that for him to be pulling out but i heard alot of girls coming out pregnant with that METHOD OF THEM!!!!IM ALWAYS THINKING WHY DO I HAVE A PROBLEM TO GET PREGNANT OR WHATS WRONG I LOVE KIDZ HOPE EVERYTHING COMES OUT GOOD NEXT WEEK IM GOING TO HAVE A PAPSMEAR!!!CAN THE DR let me know if something is wrong with me or to my boyfriend i was planning to tell my bf to go with me what do u guys
2007-12-06 19:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
This is not a method of birth control, you haven't gotten pregnant for one of 3 reasons, 1 you cannot get pregnant, 2 he cannot make you prgnant or 3 you just haven't gotten pregnant yet.
Unless there is some significant problem, it would be virtually impossible to tell for sure why you are not getting pregnant on a routine pelvic examination. Of course if you are not trying to get pregnant, then the issue may be unimportant, but the problem is, what if you have tube scarring from an unresolved pelvic inflammatory disease.
Discuss the issue with your physician, but if there is no issue, then you should use some form of birth control unless you want to get pregnant.
Even with the withdrawal method, sperm exit the shaft of the penis with the preejaculatory fluid (a source of lubrication) and have to potential to conceive if an ovum is present.
2007-12-06 19:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by US_DR_JD 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to have children get on the pill or depo shot or something so you dont have to use the pull out method. No it is not 100% effective to use the pull out method so count yourself lucky. The doctor cant tell you anything from a papsmear unless it comes out abnormal and they have to do further tests. Unless you want to become pregnant I would not worry too much at this point.
2007-12-07 03:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by sweetangelgreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to have sex, you should be old enough to understand this:
A man has enough in his secretions to impregnate a woman.
The secretions occur long before ejaculation. These have already been deposited in you during the act of having sex. Whether he withdraws or not, it is immaterial.
Withdrawal is not - definitely NOT - the method to prevent pregnancy. Tell your b/f to grow up.
If having a baby is your main aim, then yes - I agree with you - it is a cause of concern as to why you are not pregnant yet.
You both would have had sex enough times that you should have been pregnant by now.
Consult a doctor. Further tests will reveal the reasons behind why you are not getting preg. He should also go with you to see the doc.
I have a question for you. Why do you want to do this when he does not want to be the father? You are asking for trouble. Raising the baby yourself is difficult and it is not fair for the baby either.
2007-12-07 04:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girl get pregnant like this because guys can orgasm unexpectedley and also there is sperm is pre-***, which can occur long before an orgasm. The only reason you are not pregnant is because you are very lucky or one of you are unable to have children. Proabably just lucky though. Why dont you take the pill?
2007-12-07 03:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Derrick Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMEtimes you can be hard to get pregnant for awhile and then Suddenly, you ARE pregnant. You are playing a dangerous game. Single mothers have a very hard time raising kids alone and your boyfriend does not sound like he wants to be a dad. Get Smart and Good Luck.
2007-12-07 04:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just lucky thus far. A man does not have to ejaculate to get sperm in you. Heard of pre-***? Well not really such thing. It is just plain *** with millions of potential impregnators in each drop. You better try something else to avoid pregnacy. Your method is bound to be disappointing.
2007-12-07 03:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by genghis1947 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend obviously doesnt want a child .if he did, he wouldnt be pulling out. dont try getting pregnant if he doesnt agree,he has doubts about things,doesnt he make that clear when he tells you what if .......? he doesnt sound sure about wanting a baby and thats ok. why would you want to be left with a baby to care for on your own? you are right,pulling out doesnt work for everyone.i think you have just been lucky of not getting pregnant thats all........
2007-12-07 03:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a term for girls who avoid pregancy by using this pull-out method:
PREGNANT
Just give it time. You'll see.
Or maybe you'll get smart first and use some birth control. But you seem so in love with this method that you probably won't. And we'll be using a different term to refer to you in about 2 years.
SINGLE MOMMY
2007-12-07 03:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's just luck that you haven't gotten pregnant. I really don't see where you are going with this. Is it that you want a baby and your bf doesn't or what?
2007-12-07 03:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luck and grace of God
have you consider using a birth control pill before your luck runs out??
2007-12-07 04:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋