I have been depressed for the last while, (guys not loving me for who I am, being lonely, acting career etc). I went to the pool yesterday, just trying to relieve stress, relaxing in the hot tub. After a while, a kid who looked about 14, maybe 15 came in and recognized me, knew who I was. He said he could tell I was looking quite depressed. We were talking for about 15 minutes. I thought he was an extremely cool kid, he said his brother who is 25, is coming out of the gym in 10 minutes, and said I should go see a movie with them.
I saw a man walk walking towards us, a muscular guy, good looking, reminded me of some kind of roofer, painter or something. It was his older brother. He introduced us to eachother, he was an extremely nice guy. We ended up going to see a movie and eat dinner, the 3 of us. John (25) Jacob (14). John told me jacob comes to his house on weekends on some weekdays, overnight. I look foward to seeing both of them again.
Is this too good to be true?Have I..
2007-12-06 18:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Actually found love?
know its so fast, but it just said thought to my self, wow I actually feel like I belong, and enjoy being with them. Everything that happened, (what type of discussions we were talking about at dinner, how Jacob debates over everything, how John looks me in the eyes in a certain way, jacob falling asleep on me during the movie)
I never felt this way in any other relationships
2007-12-06 18:38:20 · update #1
I know when you're depressed that you often look for someone to love you, that maybe you're actually worth something.
I know that feeling- i myself have sufferd depression.
So be careful.
I would not recommend rushing in on anything. Get to know them by all means- become good friends. But let things roll along, don't push it. If thinks naturally fall that way after a couple of months, then that's nice.
As for the "light of my depression". No.
Much depression is circumstancial. Until that circumstance changes or you learn to deal with it, you will be depressed. No relationship will change that, although it may bring a little more joy.
Other depression is biological, a relationship will not help that.
If this were to fall through, and he wasn't who you thought... you'll be in a worse state than you are now- feeling more unloved, more lonely.
2007-12-06 18:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by emi_sausage 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you post the same question in many unrelated forums?
Obviously, you are seeking the answer you want to hear, so here's my advice:
This 25 year-old sounds like the one for you. I think you should feel free to engage into a deep intimate relationship with him - this weekend. Just invite him to put lotion on you at the pool, then take him in your house for a drink (or two) and let nature (and him) take it's course. Don't wait.
Don't waste time thinking about responsiblites and the burdens in life. Enjoy the moment. Feel the pleasure of his energy.
This should alleviate your depression for a couple of weeks.
2007-12-07 05:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by geeksball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by murarilal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m vickey i hv recently got a girl who seems to be very understanding wth me even i got the same kind of feeling like u its seems that we have intamate relationship i dont know what to do should i propose her or not will she accept me am i falling in love i dont know whats happing wth me plz if u get the satisfing answer plz do let me know.......i hope u ll soon get ur answer and u ll too help me out.........
2007-12-06 18:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by vickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I look like you actaully have found love. Congrats! Its not too good to be true.
2007-12-06 18:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cute :D
I think it's great that you found someone that you really like :]
2007-12-06 18:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by anchorage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good things always happen when you least expect them!! good luck!
2007-12-06 18:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by outta~this~world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋