I worry about offending people, I worry about annoying others..it seems I worry way too much and yet I am happy with who I am..
2007-12-06 18:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Unless you have pinpointed some serious personality flaws in your character that have gotten you into serious social trouble time and again in the past, then you are probably a little too preoccupied with others.
Fact is, you could be the nicest most tolerant and loving person in the world and you will always find people who get offended by the most trivial things you say, write or do.
2007-12-06 18:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Pi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's being paranoid ,then I think all decent ,caring and considerate people shall have to be paranoid as well.Since that can't be,I would like to think that you are more than normal but not abnormal(being too nice is not considered normal now a days).Being tactful and diplomatic helps us to convey most of the content which some people do being curt,out spoken or even rude.Keep it up but let nobody put you down.All the best.
2007-12-07 00:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with who you are then there is nothing else that matters! I tend to purposely offend people , being a sarcastic person I somehow find humor in irritating people , I consider myself a nice person, I"ll always help someone and I like to forgive and forget things but I hope it don't make me a bad person. I guess it's people that offend others that I myself like to offend.
2007-12-06 18:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mud 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Glad you are happy so you have nothing really to worry about, besides it does no good to worry.
I mean can you stop the rain from falling by worrying about it.
I would love to be annoyed by you you sound a lovely person.
2007-12-06 18:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have similar social anxiety. Bigger picture, Freud said 95% of people have some kind of neuroses, and they manifest themselves in different ways. The other 5% are psychotic.
2007-12-06 18:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONE CAN AFFORD TO B WHEN THEIR YOUNG,BUT AS TIME PASSES, ,THAT IN FACT U BECOME WHAT U REALLY WERE AN HAD MASK IT VERY WELL.OFFENDING OR ANNOYING OTHERS UNMASK ITSELF,NOT TO THE POINT OF BEING A TRUANT,BUT LESS CAUTIOUS,OF THE WAY U SPEAK TO SOMEONE. U GOT TIME NOW TO RETRIVE THAT IMAGE,BUT U HAVE TO WORK 4 IT
2007-12-07 00:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nuh... I dun worry about such things, I just stay honest and blunt if others dont appreciate muh ways then... they are free to move on...
2007-12-06 18:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happens with me, I eventually learned to just be myself and if you hurt someones feelings just apologize and move on. ;)
2007-12-06 18:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i posted a question saying the same thing....but the lovely people soon put me right...there are some great folks onQ@A.especialy my contacts there a great bunch..and very caring....why dont you come on board......seamanab x
2007-12-07 00:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by seamanab 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i do the exact same thing...glad to know i'm not the only one.
2007-12-06 18:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋