How to brake up with a potentialy dangerous boyfriend????

Question

I will be the first to admit that I am no good at relationships. I ben with so many men all I can do is wonder where I went wrong. I think what it is, is my older brother is sooo nice, that when I meat other men I have expectations that they will be good to me. So I have had so many problems with my boyfriend "BONES" that I am thinking to bake up this time. We ben together for about 4 months. I LOVE HIM. But he is NOT good for me and my doughter. We need a real man to take care of us. Not to drag me down with him. I need a good way to get him to move out of my place, and to do a final brake up. My friends say that he will not go on without me and that he loves me. so this is hard. He ben stressin me out all kinds to that I cant even imagine to share. We Wont Go There. so:Whats worked for you in the past???? How to get over this??????

Answer 1

drink 5 rum and cokes

then kick him in the " NUTS "

tell him to pack his gear and get out , or this will become a regular occurrence

if this don't work tell him a scottish fembot is coming over to give him a

" Glasgow kiss "

all the best
sylvia saint :)

Answer 2

Girl I put in no less then three years I want to be sure there is no hope. And this is where I lose. Need to follow own advice but it's back to that heart thing. Trouble is the commitment has been made and all stuff is blended. It's a family thing. Common law in texas some say yea some say nay. Police say yea. I know this as fairly recent fact. Just can't remember the stickey part is 3,4,or 6 mos. living together. there's the catch 22.. BAM!! That hurts !! You say yours police and common law in state of texas says its both of yours equally !! Damn it !! Is rental in your name must talk to lanlord if he not on lease get lanlord to intervene. More then likely they stay far away from that or next possibity is landload lets you out of lease makes both move !! That happens he's going to be closer to you then your own shadow ! Which will actually be worse. Depends if you really want out. This is where I ALWAYS fail !! I do but dont sick of starting over do dont do dont next thing it's 3-4 ta 5 yrs later vested in nonstop total violent relations i said i never do again. catch x took kids do to violence so have had no little people to protect had help me take the right road and put them first. and no family to run to or help me. So your escape is pre meditated behind his back handle some **** before your split.You are going to have to be the one to go.. You lose he wins face it and get ove it and it's hurts and is a killer that rips your heart out. You luckly have what i didnt you have a little face that looks at you and luvs you unconditionally righy now !! Don't blow it you can't get the timemachine started cause there aint one time keeps moving on and you do not want risk losing little one ! Get you off lease him on or have to break yours and secretly pack and slowly move out have friends or parents come get and hold your hand keep you away til he and you move on sepertly

Answer 3

This can be really tricky, having been in a similar situation myself I know how hard it is. But you have to remember that you're an adult. And more importantly, you're a mother. Make sure your daughter is somewhere safe and if you're really afraid, just call him. Tell him that you aren't ready for a relationship, if you're afraid of telling him the truth. Also, do NOT ever meet up with him alone afterwards. You have to be smart and do whatever you can to take care of your child and yourself.
And just for the record, you're right to have certain expectations. Your brother sounds like a good guy. And you do deserve someone who will be good to you and your child. Make sure you talk to your brother and let him know that you're afraid how your boyfriend will react. If he's as good as he sounds, he'll stay by you.
Good luck and be very careful.

Answer 4

Make an excuse and tell him that in 3 months u need to move out of state for school or work reason and that he needs to get a place for his own , u can tell him later after he moved out that u changed your mind about moving,
be nice to him if he is dangerous but try to go with him in places that are so many other pretty girls, let them give him attention and let him give attention as well, make him think that he is too good for you and there are so many hot girls out there for him, he will eventually lose interest and will leave you alone,

Answer 5

man ur in one hell of a spot. well my best idea is to have a lot of Friends around you when you want him to leave for good. and your brother if bones starts ****. but the most important thing i can tell you is please don't have your kid there when you plan on doing it. and after this take a step back and make it just you and your girl for awhile. show ur girl your a strong woman who dont need a man to make something of herself. it sounds like you had some bad men, dont make men so important, but dont give up there not all bad.

Answer 6

um...gee...why is he living with you in the first place? so you love him already? why is his name "bones"? okay, so why dont you start being distant, not a good girl friend- but i dont mean cheat on him because if he is crazy, you dont need to involve someone else's life. get your relationship to the point where its just hopeless and get HIM to break up with you. if he is a danger to your daughter than you need to save up money and drop him like a bad habit and move yourself to a different city or state. If this is a bad environment for you then its a bad environment for your child and you need to leave ASAP! dont get into another relationship for a while

Answer 7

Screw you both he he ha ha. If it comes to it have a shoot out. Folks can whine day in day out. We were here before, we will be us after. Buck up. I will say THIS though. If you even have to ask about the environment Daughter lives in you suck. No matter who we are, no matter what we do, no matter how we come up our children come FIRST. You know it bud.

Answer 8

ask your brother to help with this one. if he's potentially dangerous, you sure as hell don't need him around your daughter. think of your kid and what example you're setting for her. i would get into some counseling so you could learn why you're attracting these kinds of men. sometimes we do it and not realize it. good luck sweetie.

merry christmas

Answer 9

dump him do it in public place over phone or with ur brother around if ur nervous if he acts up get restraining order,

or i could have my crew kick his behind 4 u

Answer 10

tell him to get lost and you dont need a man to take care of you.if he dont want to go then get the police involved.