How i do i tell my boyfriend that i am pregnant but he would already know he wouldnt be the father because we never had sex but i wouldnt no which guy i was pregnant by. should i lie and tell him that i know which guy. Should i have sex with him and make him think that he got me pregnant? What should i do?
2007-12-06 18:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Austins Mommy dont tell me what i should do and what would make the babys life or my life better. Thats wasnt the question i asked.
2007-12-06 18:54:10 · update #1
Wow, that's one pickle you've gotten yourself into.
Well, eitherway he'll find out you're pregnent, and most likely he'll find it's not his (if it looks nothing like him in the slightest).
So, considering that, i would say it's best to be upfront about it. He'll respect you ALOT LESS if he has to find out the hard way.
Sure, he'll be extremely annoyed and angry at you, and he probably won't be your boyfriend for long, but it's nothing compared to what it will be like if he finds out by other means.
As for who it is... If you say you don't know, it does imply you've been sleeping around, however, he doesn't have someone to be directly angry at (other than you).
But if you say you know, he will- quite rightfully- want to know who.
However, i would always tend to go on the honesty line, because you will get your "just desserts". And if one day he forgives you, you'll likely have more respect in his eyes.
I hope you've learnt your lesson.
Good luck.
2007-12-06 18:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by emi_sausage 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, go and tell him the truth. Explain everything to him and be honest with him. Do not lie to him. In the end he will find out that you lied and because you lied it will make the situation a whole lot worse. Your best bet is to explain everything openly and honestly to him and hope for the best. If you have a boyfriend you should not be sleeping around with any other guys at all.
2007-12-06 18:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Humans make mistakes, and you are obviously human.
But, I don't think you should have sex with him just to make him think that he's the one that got you pregnant.
That wouldn't be very nice :/
Imagine what would happen when the baby comes out and he looks nothing like him?
You can't make him take care of someone that isn't even related too him.
You have to go tell him.
2007-12-06 21:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by anchorage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUDE FIRST OFF DONT LIE AND HAVE SEX WITH HIM TO MAKE HIM THINK HES THE DAD thats just wrong like 4 real....... but u could tell him u no who it is a lil white lie never hurt anyone but yeah just tell him and see how he takes it
2007-12-06 18:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
so... you wouldn't have sex with your actual boyfriend but you would with others. gross and weird.
he deserves to know. don't have sex with him and let him believe he's the daddy.. that sick and wrong. Plus, if he can do any math at all, he'll know that baby isn't his. You must be at least 4 weeks or more by now...
2007-12-07 07:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rossy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not have sex with him and make him think it is him. I think you have done enough lieing to him by sleeping with other guys. You should tell him the truth and not be surprised when he leaves you.
2007-12-06 18:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend youre pregnant because he deserves 1000000000000x better than you, you shouldnt have cheated in the first place.
You should be ashamed of yourself thats what you should do.
2007-12-06 20:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ariana, <3 Deaf Dogs 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. That you're pregnant and don't know who the father is.
2007-12-06 19:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth or you'll end up in the Maury Show looking for the baby daddy and running backstage when Maury tells you " he's not the father"!!!!!!
2007-12-06 18:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by outta~this~world 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to him.
Tell him the truth, and if he's a good guy, he'll stick around.
2007-12-06 19:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by MacAllister! 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋