IF something is "unhealthy" does it mean, it's wrong?
Do you find the word "unhealthy" somewhat accusatory?
2007-12-06 15:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it does not benefit your beliefs, moral standards or accomplishments that you have mentioned . The person that suggest it is unhealthy see that this will be a setback on your mental state of being progressive. It does not give you room to grow and achieve, a setback
2007-12-06 16:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by ljjmjd3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put "unhealthy" before the words behavior and social relationship - it means there's something not socially right about your conduct. It might be okay for some but not to the general populace. Unhealthy is just a description and its not really accusatory, depends on the tone of voice it was used.
2007-12-06 23:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not accusatory. Unhealthy means you are doing things or making choices in the name of the relationship that are hurtful to you. You may be enabling an addict or abuser by staying with them or you may be putting yourself in harms way because of the kind of people your friend hangs with. The person may be demanding all your time and attention and separating you from your friends and family by doing so. You may be very emotionally immature and by giving your friend control over your life you don't have the growth experiences it takes to grow up inside. Who ever told you is trying to do you a favor and you should look at the relationship carefully and see who is getting the good stuff and who is getting the cruddy end of the stick. And don't say "I do it because I love him. " Take care of yourself first and you will be more attractive to a lot more people. BTW families can be very unhealthy relationships.
2007-12-06 23:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I would ask what they mean by unhealthy and actually listen to what the other person is saying. Depending on my relationship with the person and why I am talking to them, I would weigh what they had to say.
If a professional therapist or counselor is telling me that my behavior is coming across with unhealthy aspects, I would want to know what they mean and calmly ask for a simple explanation.
If it feels somewhat "accusatory" to you, then perhaps the truth hit too close to home for you. I would explore why it's bothering you and see a professional therapist to work your issues out.
2007-12-06 23:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you describe some one's behavior or relationship as unhealthy, you do not consider them to be normal and think that they may be psychologically harmful.For example.....
1.Frank has developed an unhealthy relationship with these persons.
2.Beatelmania became an unhealthy obsession.
3.Mac Gregor believes that it is unhealthy to lead a life with no interests beyond politics.
2007-12-07 11:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means sooner or later your physical/mental health is going to be affected.
For example if you sleep around you may contract an incurable STD
If you have an abortion you may suffer long term emotional problems.
"unhealthy" means not good in the long term, not "wrong" just not "wise".
2007-12-06 23:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh let's be honest, Sweetie.
Unhealthy means exactly what YOU know it means.
It's: dangerous or risky, it's bad or injurious, morally contaminated, corrupt or unwholesome.
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Whatever your behavior or "social relationship" is...if it's unhealthy...it's something you shouldn't be doing or having.
2007-12-07 00:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kaye 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋