please give me an answer?

Question

why would a 27 year old hit on a 50 year old lady i'm happily married but i was at a ladys house to do something for her she was not there but she said her boyfriend would be and he was asking me if i had ever dated younger men and did i cheat on my husband and he told me he was 27 yrs old why would he ask all of this then his girlfriend came home and he got real quiet like he was affraid i was going to tell her by the way i have a 27 year old son

Answer 1

I like older ladies, don't be offended, be flattered. Someone other than your husband finds you attractive... bask in the glory!

Answer 2

I have had many men want to have sex with me even younger than that. I don't find it flattering at all. These guys seem to think that I should be flattered but it's just the opposite... it's annoying. Many men are either curious or know that older women usually know more and they want to find out. Also an older women can teach a young man a lot. I am 59 years old by the way and still attractive but I am not interested. An older woman usually keeps her mouth shut too.

Answer 3

There are some men that are simply defective. He is obviously one of them. My cousin married such a man. A postmortem of the marriage after the divorce proved that he would always try to seduce pretty much every woman he came into contact with regardless of her age, status or relationship to his wife.

This particular creep was one of those who would go on and on about his emotional and/or psychological problems that drove him to do this (when caught) but he never took any action to do anything about it. I guess it is just a good ploy to get away with infidelity by claiming illness.

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Answer 4

Some guys really like older women. He probably found you to be very attractive and appealing. It's not as common for younger guys to like older women, as it is for younger girls to want older men. I suspect that part of it is yearning for a mother. I had a boyfriend once who's mother died when he was 5 and he always liked his women older than him. It may be an issue of maturity as well.

Answer 5

young men tend to like older women sometimes. Something about the excitement of being with someone that can teach you the ropes. Man the way older women keep themselves up now-a-days....I would probably just take it as a compliment.

Answer 6

He is a total creep because he is hitting on some woman when he has a girlfriend. He doesn't even know you but felt he could ask you those things! I hope you told him off!!!

Answer 7

Dear edna r,

He is probably a gigolo and that's how he lives. I wouldn't worry about him bothering you again if he got scared in front of your girlfriend, just make sure she is there the next time you see her and that you're not alone. He's not a brave one but he's not a stupid one either.

Answer 8

You should watch Chris Rock's routine about how guys are constantly throwing "d..." around hoping someone will take them up on it! "Want some of this? How about you, want some of this? You, over there across the street, you want some of this?" It's really funny. Then when some dumb chick says, "Sure, I'll take some of that" he's so stunned he can't perform! :)

Answer 9

Why? Because he wanted to have sex with you. Thats what men do. Within a certain range (which varies for every guy), age does not matter. Take it as a compliment.

Answer 10

Maybe you're just hot. 50-year-old women can be. But obviously he's way out of line. If it were me, I wouldn't get involved (telling his girlfriend or anything), but I say avoid him if you can.