hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-12-06 14:49:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
He wants to have it all, and you would be wise to NOT let him have it. He wants you to come back so he can have his girlfriend back... but it won't change anything from before. Frankly, if you were really smart, you'd stop talking to him and cut him off. So long as you maintain this connection with the ex, you are not going to get anywhere with new boyfriends, and you will not find the committed relationship you seem to desire. Break it off completely. You will be doing yourself AND him a favor, because then you BOTH can move on and find someone who will fulfill your needs. Good luck!
2007-12-06 14:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this question posted a number of times already, so just use the answer you've already got for advice. Try and start going out with him again,he sounds like a guy who wants to make up something. All you can do is give it a chance.
2007-12-07 05:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋