This guy used to love me for 4 years. It was a love at first sight and lust. We never have sex because I am a vigin. He have a strong desire for me. He called me the longing.
Recently, he told me that when he masturbates or has sex with a girl --he have been thinking of making love to me for the past three years.
Is he telling the true? Will he stop?
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P.S. I am no longer with the guy --distance and circumstance.
2007-12-06 13:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
To me it sounds like he is telling the truth becuase he told you it and most males in a couple want to have sex in the first year if its been 4 years with no sex thats dedication but he had to turn somewhere else to fit his needs while you had plenty of time to decide if you want to lose your virginity. him having sex with another person would really be the only way for a natural male to get what he needs while in a relation ship.
And EVERY GUY MASTERBATES if your gona use that against him you should jump off a building... lol
i think he really loves and respects you if he didnt pressure you into losing the virginity you held so near... if you distenced your self to him i think you should go back with him(with the exeption *he gets cheaked for stds and what not) you shouldnt be jelous of the other women she was just helping him when he needed it.. rather you like it or not
i hope by the end of reading this you c it form my point of view and well reward him for his dedication not punish him cuz he cared about you choices
2007-12-06 14:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Helping Hand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a twist for you. I was 6-2 155 pounds when I got married. Now I am 6-1 250 pounds. Same guy. Just something to think about.
2016-05-21 22:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be obsessed with you, or the memory of you.
I would be concerned about his preoccupation with you.
Let people know what is going on, and it may be wise to let your parents or the authorities know what is happening if only to get it on the 'record' that this person is a potential threat.
It is NOT right that he call you and tell you these things.
2007-12-06 13:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by thinkaboutmoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be obsessed with you... but if i was you i would find someone else because there is a lot of better boys or men out there and just don't wait on that guy you might have to move on. if he is not a virgin and he has been a round the block then i suggest that you don't go out with him.. or hook up with him.
2007-12-06 14:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by B- town 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being so obsessed with you mentally that he has thoughts of you while with another women-- i seriously doubt it -if he was that mentally hooked then he would show so many outward signs like going over board with flowers dinners contact etc.. yes i have fantasized of doing another woman while i was with another but that is so far in between--he says 3 years ? naww
2007-12-06 13:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by southarkansas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this is soo cliche. I truly think he just wants sex. Think about it, if he can think about you while having sex with anoher girl, he can definitely think about other girls when having sex with you. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't just think of making love to you. Love is not all about sex. Unfortunately, he is.
2007-12-06 15:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not telling the truth. You aren't available to him therefore he wants to have sex with you. That's how guys work. They love to work for it. Once they get it, they are gone!
2007-12-06 13:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by jfoxie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people are just attracted to people and can't get on with their lives so he is probaly telling the truth and probaly will keep thinking of you until you **** him
2007-12-06 13:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. You are one heck of a tease!
2007-12-06 14:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling the truth he is screwed up
2007-12-06 13:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋