INVISIBLE i was....
seriously i was at the cafet. w/ my "friends" and im very shy so i barely talk and everytime i said something they just wouldnt hear me like completelly ignoring me...it wasnt my voice level and theyre not mad at me so i just b-came invisible...2 them and to every1 else...
so what do u want me to do since no 1 can see me....?
2007-12-06 13:11:48 · 23 answers · asked by Nobody4689 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thanx guys!!!
u make me feel "special"
2007-12-06 14:17:11 · update #1
What were you talking about? My college roomate tries talking but everyone ignores him. See, he talks about something completely different than what we're talking about which makes him conversationally disattached (big words, crap). So we ignore him because he isn't saying anything that relates to what we're talking about.
Ex: Me: "Hey Joe, I hope finals aren't too hard."
Joe: "Yeah I know"
Roomate: "I forgot to buy shampoo."
Joe and Me: "?????"
Joe: "So did you study yet?"
2007-12-06 13:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was like you too, until I finally found the courage to speak out... Remember that if they're really your friends, they should understand how you feel and won't let you feel invisible... Being left out, is actually your choice, from what you've just told us, well, try being there to listen to your friend's conversation, which means get more involved...
Start mixing around in more crowds too, if you have no problem with outsiders already, it would be easier with people that you know... ^_^
REPLY: You are welcome, dear... It's okay to get attention from here once in awhile... I do that too... ^_^
2007-12-06 13:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe start a new conversation, or ask them questions. if they still wont pay any attention to you, then theyre probly too stuck-up, or they just dont make any good, real friends. they arent worth it then. dont be afraid to talk to new people! hang out at new places, or call an old friend and get close again. someone WILL listen, i promise :)
2007-12-06 13:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by mirablue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and be more open with your friends, make the conversation interesting, like you saw something funny the other day, or you have something interesting to talk about.
Things like that will make them more interested in you.
Good luck
2007-12-06 13:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well you're obviously not invisible here and that should be a good thing...
well just speak louder...
or try just starting a conversation with just one of your friends it might just be a little bit easier...
good luck ;)
<3.
2007-12-06 14:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear someone, but I can't see anyone......
JK
You are invisible by choice. If you don't want to be invisible, make yourself be seen. You're not invisible, your friends are just blind.
2007-12-06 13:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
honestly, maybe you shouldn't be friends w/ them anymore. If they're ignoring you, that obviously means they're not interested in you. look for new people to hang out with! start fresh and be positive!
2007-12-07 08:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Little Yogi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself by people who see you. People you want to talk to and people you want to hear you. Change your focus with your friends.
2007-12-06 13:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well what can i say? im a master at invisible spells.
2007-12-07 08:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by E.Havok 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i have the same problem!
i feel like such a pushover
but just say Hey! and say what you gotta say
i know the feeling =(
2007-12-06 13:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Wish you were me bitch 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋